Maybe our perceptions are as individual as our fingerprints. Maybe what we call sex or lovemaking is not just different for each partner, but different every time. Maybe we fall into patterns that are familiar because they work well for both, but lose the spontaneity of exploration when we do. Maybe orgasms feel different each time, or generally different for different people. Simplifying a complicated experience down to a few words may make it seem like its all the same, but I don't think it is.

It sounds like you literally experienced what some people call afterglow. You went to a new place, and that is way cool. Maybe you will find other as well.

Endorphins! Makes you hear colors.

I can attest to sexual moments of blissful connection far beyond the physical, beyond the emotional, beyond the personal and interpersonal. If it turns out there IS some essence of unity and agape love, those moments would be the closest to bathing in ‘it’ I can imagine.

great time to tell her how much you deeply love her

Never had thata though once I slapped my lover's ass and it triggeredthe "Clapper '.That was funny.

Enjoy to the Nth Degree .

Bulb about to burn out?

I've never had sex that good.

I turn the light off and stop recording ‍

The music box probably has some glowing wires inside ....love is not magic nor are alleged deities lurking in your bedroom ready to shine a light on your ass or her nipples

Maybe you satisfied her ? I ALSO have seen my lovers light up a dark bedroom but not from an external light source....this thread is as good as any for me to post a tangient of sorts....I have a weekend date with a woman who seems to be hinting SHE DELIBERATELY AVOIDS orgasm ....like a scene out of a Peter Sellers movie, "preserving her precious bodily fluids and life essence" ??????? I should throw this historic fact in here too: ......when Isaac Newton died a religious fanatic, alchemist and PERFECT MATHEMATICIAN calculating gravity and celestial mechanics....nonetheless his dying words were: " I NEVER MASTURBATED I NEVER MARRIED I REMAIN PURE " ...back to my date, we are cooking all weekend and all alone romantically....our adult children are not visiting until TURKEY DAY....several women have told me they enjoy sex and rarely orgasm with a partner.....49 years of lovers and 2 marriages and why women have loved me seduced me and 2 birthed my 2 daughters still remains MYSTERIOUS for the most part....it's so easy for me to get off.....they all were good to me in bed....and I NEVER stopped kissing them tasting them until I tasted their complete pleasure responses OR QUIT after they declared multiple orgasms were delaying our time for sleep needed for our tomorrows....are all women going to keep their paths to satisfaction keep their lovers like me in the dark HOW AND WHY or IF they experience complete bliss??? I don't mind if they keep their secrets as long as I get to taste their ambrosia of love

Sounds like too many romance novels

Tell him/her how happy they make you feel. Maybe cuddle get something to eat. Or In my case I would do it again. Rince repeat.

Nope bath in after glow