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Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
May 25, 2018May 2018

Posted by NormCastle
I have often said, on various sites, cheating is not the sex, but the lie. As a young bisexual male, those many years ago, I had a relationship with one of my male friends for about three years before the subject of marriage with my girlfriend came ...
7 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 10, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by UUNJ
This graphic came across my Instagram feed, and it’s an impressively simple way to understand the cycle of abuse in relationships. It’s important to recognize it in our own relations and in our friends’ and loved ones’ lives so we can offer ...
3 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 14, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by ownworstenemy
Sometimes it's painful. Sometimes it's insurmountable. And sometimes it's even imaginary.
2 comments
Real Intimacy
Sep 19, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
I'm a sucker for love songs. Not the sappy kind, but the ones that hit to the heart of what love means. What song(s) do that for you.
24 comments
Real Intimacy
Oct 18, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by HardBlues69
Of all the beautiful wonderful things in a good relationship that I miss mostly? Falling to sleep together. So soothing and calming. And one can just feel the love.
4 comments
Real Intimacy
May 7, 2019May 2019

Posted by bleurowz
What it is...
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Real Intimacy
May 31, 2019May 2019

Posted by ownworstenemy
Seek and ye shall find!
5 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 7, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by WalterWhite
It's not so hard after all. So glad they finally worked this out.
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 8, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Riverman
What does everybody here think about the importance of chemistry to a relationship ? Recently I had a date with a lady which went pretty well and we seemed had a lot of laughs. The next day she told me she didn't want to see me again because she ...
19 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 18, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Lauraleigh39
I have a dilemma: 1. Part of me wants to be alone as right now I am just sick of men and want a break. I am also a very busy full time single mom with almost no time. 2. Im 39 and sexually frustrated alot. Ive never been good at masturbating and ...
28 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 19, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by OldHippieAtHeart
Have been fortunate in life to have experienced demonstrated unconditional love, from grandmother and grandchild.
5 comments
Real Intimacy
Sep 1, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by ownworstenemy
Gently she said... Caressing her skin with the side of my mouth Tell me how you want me she whispers As I run my hand across her side coming to a rest just above her inner thigh Her pulse quicken as my breath warms her neck She grabs my hand and ...
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Sep 25, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by UUNJ
How to sustain sexual intimacy in long-term relationships, a TEDx talk by sex educator and researcher Emily Nagoski. She’s absolutely correct with this one.
7 comments
Real Intimacy
Sep 28, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by Cabsmom
I'm not sure about the FWB possibility. I'm thinking I need to just to just chill a while and think other stuff through.
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Jan 30, 2021Jan 2021

Posted by MizJ
Single during the pandemic, a good read.
12 comments
Real Intimacy
Feb 21, 2022Feb 2022

Posted by KhaCR
You ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters? Like, all of a sudden I have a new criteria for 🍆 and I can’t express it w/o ...
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Apr 23, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Cant compare to a real physical exchange of affection ,however, sometimes that's not always possible. How many of you would be willing to engage in sexting or phone sex if you were in a distant relationship/ or any other reason.
27 comments
Real Intimacy
May 30, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
although it's still somewhat taboo ,studies show many people meet their spouses at work. Are office romances a positive or negative thing. Personally I have very mixed feelings.
12 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 17, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Buttercup
What complaint about you do you keep hearing? I'm impulsive, random, unpredictable, etc. My first two SOs were type A super geniuses (Ivy league families) and my "lack of focus" was a constant source of frustration for them. My wife has a Zen, bend ...
9 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 18, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
I've noticed through conversations that some people develope shallow reasons, based on past relationship failures, to not date others. Does your past negative experiences cause you to immediately dismiss someone due to their name, profession, ...
18 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 14, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Telegramsam70
There’s a book I read a few years ago (and several times since) called Attached. It opens up the concept of attachment style in relationships. The spectrum covers anxious, avoidant, and secure. Each of us fall somewhere in that spectrum, and the ...
3 comments
Real Intimacy
Sep 15, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by zesty
What do you think about the swinger lifestyle? Is it the way of the future?
22 comments
Real Intimacy
Oct 15, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Agnauseous
I've been in a monogamous relationship with my wife for 20 years. For 15 years of that, I've been hoping her sex drive would increase or mine would decrease. I don't know if I just have insatiable needs or she just lacks the level of warmth and ...
19 comments
Real Intimacy
Dec 20, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by RonWilliam53
Don't know whether to file this under Compliment or Insult: I'm in play and we have to share a dressing room (m/f/etc.). I'm picking out bits and pieces when the half my age actress comes in, stands next to me and starts stripping down to her ...
22 comments
Real Intimacy
Feb 19, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by MindfulLove
Contemplating the beauty of nature and intimate encounters via this verse: "We walk on frosted ground praising chrysanthemums bordering fields; sit on the east edge of the woods waiting for the moon to rise. Not having to be alone is happiness; we do...
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Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

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Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

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