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A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
Apr 25, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by ejbman
I would temper this a little by saying love takes advantage of natural impulses, especially the impulse to care for others, and especially the impulse to care for those who are vulnerable and in need.
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Real Intimacy
Apr 26, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Kojaksmom
Why Romantic Relationships are not the Cure for Loneliness. | elephant journal ? Found this in the community and found it worth sharing.
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Real Intimacy
Apr 30, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by rr2136
I have no faith in god(s). Im loosing faith in humans. Im having trouble finding people to connect with that just want to be easy going and accepting. Would love to have nice calm discussion about all things well hell anything!!!
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Real Intimacy
Apr 30, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by riverman1234
well its hard to talk about how I feel about religion . I live in the thumping bible belt. I think if I came out and said how I felt I would be tar and feathered LOL. I just don't why so many people haven't come to same conclusion that I have about ...
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Real Intimacy
Oct 15, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Agnauseous
I've been in a monogamous relationship with my wife for 20 years. For 15 years of that, I've been hoping her sex drive would increase or mine would decrease. I don't know if I just have insatiable needs or she just lacks the level of warmth and ...
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Real Intimacy
Dec 20, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by RonWilliam53
Don't know whether to file this under Compliment or Insult: I'm in play and we have to share a dressing room (m/f/etc.). I'm picking out bits and pieces when the half my age actress comes in, stands next to me and starts stripping down to her ...
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Real Intimacy
Feb 19, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by MindfulLove
Contemplating the beauty of nature and intimate encounters via this verse: "We walk on frosted ground praising chrysanthemums bordering fields; sit on the east edge of the woods waiting for the moon to rise. Not having to be alone is happiness; we do...
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Real Intimacy
Apr 6, 2020Apr 2020

Posted by MindfulLove
For those who cherish intimacy, human “touch is a . . . nuanced, sophisticated, and precise way to communicate emotions . . ..” I ask, was it long before the current pandemic arrived that true intimacy had departed? Masked, dwelling in a ...
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Real Intimacy
Aug 16, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by EyesThatSmile
POLLHow many times have you felt like you were in love? (Please don’t respond with statements about how love is different for everyone or that we really don’t know what love is.). At 57 I can say I have been in love 4 times (and also lived with a ...
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Real Intimacy
Sep 18, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Kojaksmom
Were you able to remain close friends with exes? According to psychology if you could remain friends with an ex it means you either still love them or never really loved them in the first place. Agree or disagree and why
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Real Intimacy
Dec 13, 2020Dec 2020

Posted by Kojaksmom
How is everyone dating in the age of the Coronavirus? Are any of you out there actively seeking a new partner?
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Real Intimacy
Aug 25, 2022Aug 2022

Posted by SunshineEast
It is unrealistic for a woman to expect a man to know how to pleasure her sexually. A man does not experience what a woman does. How does a woman approach having her needs and wants met?
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Real Intimacy
Feb 21, 2022Feb 2022

Posted by KhaCR
You ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters? Like, all of a sudden I have a new criteria for 🍆 and I can’t express it w/o ...
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Real Intimacy
Apr 23, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Cant compare to a real physical exchange of affection ,however, sometimes that's not always possible. How many of you would be willing to engage in sexting or phone sex if you were in a distant relationship/ or any other reason.
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Real Intimacy
May 30, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
although it's still somewhat taboo ,studies show many people meet their spouses at work. Are office romances a positive or negative thing. Personally I have very mixed feelings.
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Real Intimacy
Jun 17, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Buttercup
What complaint about you do you keep hearing? I'm impulsive, random, unpredictable, etc. My first two SOs were type A super geniuses (Ivy league families) and my "lack of focus" was a constant source of frustration for them. My wife has a Zen, bend ...
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Real Intimacy
Jun 18, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
I've noticed through conversations that some people develope shallow reasons, based on past relationship failures, to not date others. Does your past negative experiences cause you to immediately dismiss someone due to their name, profession, ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 14, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Telegramsam70
There’s a book I read a few years ago (and several times since) called Attached. It opens up the concept of attachment style in relationships. The spectrum covers anxious, avoidant, and secure. Each of us fall somewhere in that spectrum, and the ...
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Real Intimacy
Sep 15, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by zesty
What do you think about the swinger lifestyle? Is it the way of the future?
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Real Intimacy
May 16, 2018May 2018

Posted by Lee-Timber
Toys? My wife and I like to use toys (mostly for her pleasure) and I thought I’d share one new item we got that’s really worth the price. It’s called a “womanizer”. Yes kind of a sexist name but it really works. She is already orgasmic ...
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Real Intimacy
Jun 12, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Shadrack1971
I am 48 now and can honestly say I've never experienced true love I've had partners not lots and have done all the kids stuff but I've never been that lucky to feel like that I envy you who have.
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Real Intimacy
Jun 17, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by UUNJ
Has anyone seen the film Lars and the Real Girl? It is about a guy who turns to a life-sized doll to help him learn how to relate to people (not sexually). It’s charming. I wonder what qualities in others (people, not dolls or pets) you find ...
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Real Intimacy
Jun 29, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Nardi
I feel ridiculous at times, through jealousy, when my partner tells me how well she gets on with men at work. I don't dare say anything for the fear of coming across as possessive and jealous and I certainly do not want to be the controlling type. So...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 19, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Are there any books about intimacy / relationships that had an impact on you? If so, please share.
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Real Intimacy
Jul 28, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Dan1947
I have felt for awhile that since the vast majority of us have “arrested emotional development”, few can really be open to deep and profound empathy of putting their respective partner first and reasoning deep needs out. Therefore, the majority ...
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Posted by UnitySomeday my princess will appear before me. ❤️

Posted by AtheistPeace666Hello I'm a single Canuck looking for my special lady Canuck.

Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

Posted by Philip21over the top thinking? [agnostic.com]

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