I've only DnDed once and I was the only chick in the party.
When I rolled my character I somehow got that I was super seductive (maybe they made that up for me???) I was also a thief. So the party used me to get all the secrets out of any male (or maybe even any female) opponent we met... barmen, guards, evil wizards and the like. It was a while ago, but pretty sure my constitution had to be high and I my character had excellent dexterity already. Charisma was in there someplace too. Don't remember needing any wisdom...
...and I'm pretty sure that confirms that I'm a true geek!
WHO CARES?
as far as I'm concerned they can call it whatever they want to as long as its done.