I can't stop crying today. One of the things I heard early on about death anniversaries is that the first is not the worst. I'm approaching the second anniversary of my husband's death (9/6), slept badly last night, read some posts on here about grief and I'm trying to hold it together here at work. My guy called and all I could do was cry. I'm supposed to go to his place tomorrow but he's coming here instead because he doesn't want me driving and crying. I'm just blindsided by this.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Sorry for your pain. It is never convenient and always a surprise when it hits.
I'm 12 years out and in a new relationship and I still miss my late wife anyway -- as I should. Kinda crazy how much room there is in our emotional landscape for all these balls in the air.
Be patient with yourself.
mordant
Level 8
Aug 22, 2019
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Hugs to you Mary. It's coming up on 3 1/2 years for me. It gets easier but never goes away. I'm moving on with life but will always have that huge empty spot. Peace.
starwatcher-al
Level 7
Aug 22, 2019
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One of the good things about this site is the people care, so if you need anyone to commiserate with you,just reach out
WayneDalton
Level 8
Aug 22, 2019
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I'm so sorry you're going through such sadness, but I understand completely. It's been a little over a year since I lost my darling Richard, and it's still very hard for me. Sending a big hug your way.
Redheadedgammy
Level 9
Aug 22, 2019
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