Here is something I can say a little bit about. Having had both a spouse that I adored who died and a spouse who performed the ultimate betrayal as he strayed by looking up an old acquaintance to cheat within our marriage ( he was feeling "old and grumpy with me" and being a week individual, needed to feel younger by attaching to a younger and newer, shiny love...) all of you are so special! All of US! To find that one soul who loves you and whom you can love back openly and infinitely is phenomenal. The widows and widowers can go to their death beds knowing they had this wonderful soul mate! That's something to think about, right there. We really know how to love and how to keep it alive. We have something great to offer. We knew a special someone who chose us. So rejoice as you think about them today. Nurse your memories. Cry, smile and do something you might have done together. I am going out for ice cream. Love to all who are missing someone and hurting...
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Thank you SukiSue. In a few weeks it will be a year since my husband suddenly died.
We were very lucky to have experienced such love and I am convinced all love is not created equal.
I will endeavor to keep an eye open for such a perfect mate again, but I know in reality it will be like finding a needle in a haystack and highly unlikely.
Until then, and always, I will cherish every memory.
I will join you in a bowl of ice cream ?
Hazydays
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May 28, 2018
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Please do!
This is going to sound sarcastic but why i lost my wife and have absolutely set in concrete that i will not remarry....any woman who would go to bed with me now, would have to be so hard up, she'd sleep with anybody, or everybody...
NormCastle
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May 28, 2018
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But maybe she misses her special someone too and wishes only to create a new realm with someone similar?
@SukiSue I will give you that.
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