So when you say "fuck me" do you actually do it? Just kidding, the terms oh my god, jesus christ and the like are just that, expressions, expletives, use them at your leisure, and don't feel bad about it, unless you believe that by saying jesus h christ you will suddenly be converted into a raving bible thumper.
I do not mind a woman referring to me as a god during an exceptional orgasm.
If you can think about what you are saying, never mind change it, you are having crummy sex!
@maturin1919 crummy sex is not worth the effort, sorry....
@maturin1919 I suspect any sex is okay for men, but I require a bit more, as I suspect the majority of women do. If this frightens you, too bad so sad.
other than "please stop". I'm good with what ever is being said.;P
Reminds me of a meme I saw that said it's normal to say yes, and oh yeah, but how weird would it be if someone kept screaming out yep?
I'll take it
For me phrases like 'Jesus Christ!' and 'Oh my god!' are simply expletives. Words spoken almost as a non-word expression of anger, frustration, amazement, etc.
When you express a statement which includes god, you're not declaring that you comply with other people's definition of the meaning of those words - you are imposing YOUR OWN meaning on them.
For someone for whom god is a fiction, saying the word 'god' is using the word as fiction.
Very profound and well put ToakReon's.
I'm southern, god speak litters the common vernacular. I no more expect flames flying out my ass when I say, "shit fire & save the matches " than I do divine intervention when I say "oh gawd" .
Why would I... it can refer to Zeus, Thor, or Bullwinkle ???
When the butt bouncing turns into a blur and your toes are curling, cry out "Hokey smokes, Bullwinkle!"
I'd give details about toe curling sex if wasn't for all the poor souls that would feel crushed for having missed it.
Nope. Doesn’t bother me to say it. It’s an exclamation and cathartic, as are must “curse” words. “Goddammit” is my go to when frustrated. In retrospect, I think I say “fuck” more that “god” in bed though. LOL
Doesn't bother mew at all.
In fact I consider it an accomplishment when I can get my atheist partner to actually scream "Jesus CHRIST!", because while "oh god" or "ohFuckOhFuckOhFuck" are fairly common, that's special.
Well......back when I had sex.....no problem at all.......what ever came into my bloodless brain had no resemblance to rational thought......