Aloha. I was in Ewa Beach last month. Welcome to the website.

I actually went to Oahu for the Buddhist Lantern Floating cerdmkny, and to meet a friend.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, the overwhelming majority here are bright, articulate folks, imho.

My profession mandated public speaking, large gatherings, fund raising activities and customer service, all activities to raise anxiety & drained energy. I decided long ago (thankfully) to pretend, to be an actress, to imagine I'm in a movie. I thought I would pretend to be , act as if, mimic a women I admired - Kathryn Hepburn. It works, eliminating most of the damn energy draining anxiety.

Best course of action when your brain runs dry is do more listening and ask questions. Works all the time. People think you’re fascinating if you seem interested in what they say.

Welcome Newbie. We are somewhat shy, but we are friendly.

Welcome! Its funny, we are a group known for not talking yet here the conversations flow quite freely.

Newbie here