What are the things that make each of you, man or woman, aware that someone is coming on to you. and at what point, what factors create the commitment to say yes...??
Commitment to say yes. Assuming you mean copulation. One night stands are no longer in my repertoire. As a born again virgin, I would have to say that no sex before monogamy. I would have to have a mutual discussion on many parameters prior to any hanky panky. Presumably that would occur over months of courtship. Perhaps one day after rigorous vetting I might acquiesce & permit him to hold my hand. But then being of a certain age I have no need for frivolity. I am partial to substance & integrity. Others may hold different credentials.
He is coming on to me if he gets too close. Holds eye contact too long. And don't touch me.
Coming on to you? Flips her hair. Eye contact for a too long duration. Giggles. Turns toward you. Smiles then looks away. Bends over and shakes her ass. Jumps on you & begins the horizontal mambo.
For me after reading several books on body language I would have to say if the woman is responsive to my conversation, usually and on occasion I would touch her on the hand or on the side of her face, just see her reaction.
Now this is all from initial contact but can get a general idea how she is thinking.
I believe it depends on the person, in general, there are changes in body language, attention may increase, changes in face expression, particularly in the eyes, the tone of voice may vary, there may be an increase in physical contact and the use of language may change and become more playful.
Posted by UnitySomeday my princess will appear before me. ❤️
Posted by AtheistPeace666Hello I'm a single Canuck looking for my special lady Canuck.
Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?
Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.
Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.
Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.
Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.
Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....
Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.
Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.
Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.
Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?
Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.
Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?
Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.
Posted by Philip21over the top thinking? [agnostic.com]