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Every so often, this particular topic comes up.
hankster comments on Mar 27, 2019:
if that's the kind of thing that aggravates a person, that's the kind of person I got no interest in getting to know very well. I've seen some people downright indignant about it. hilarious.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
Mind you every man that attacked me was older than me, to the point of being my father or grampa's age. And they were harassing me in my inbox acting like a damn child. Like grow the fck up dude seriously you are embarassing yourself.
Every so often, this particular topic comes up.
hankster comments on Mar 27, 2019:
if that's the kind of thing that aggravates a person, that's the kind of person I got no interest in getting to know very well. I've seen some people downright indignant about it. hilarious.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
yup. When I used to have my age listed I got way more guys pissed off in my inbox for not having a pic up. It is not my damn job to cater to the male gaze I have a damn life ya know. There are plenty of other women posting their pics go bother/talk to them. geeeze
I am curious are there any people with kids or planning to have kids in this group?
SkotlandSkye comments on Mar 27, 2019:
No kids. Childfree by choice. What is the point of your inquiry? Do you realize that making it a "poll" would make the results easier to understand/see at a glance.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
Can I edit it into being a poll? And I just do not understand the mentality of people that join groups that are against or in opposition to their lifestyle and/or beliefs. Like I also do not understand why religious people join this site either. :s
I am curious are there any people with kids or planning to have kids in this group?
mordant comments on Mar 27, 2019:
I am here because I regret having had kids. Does that meet with your approval?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
why so defensive bro? So now being curious and inquiring about something means I am seeking to dish out approval? pffft
I saw this on a dating site as a profile picture. I wonder if she is seeking a necrophiliac?
demifeministgal comments on Mar 26, 2019:
It is a weird and strange picture but what made you see this and jump to necrophilia exactly?? Lots of young women have pics with flowers as a frame, albeit looking directly at the camera heh
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
@mooredolezal I think it may be the angle then. I personally did not think coffin, but I guess I can understand why others would. Though being in a coffin with one's eyes open would be creeeepy as fck.
some people's stupidity is bloody hilarious.
Violet comments on Mar 27, 2019:
My dogs are my profile pics on all my social media. I do not put pics up of myself.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
I rarely put pics up of myself on facebook but everywhere else it is doggy pics or cartoon pics or insightful quote pics.
Anyone out there dealt with narcissistic abuse?
KMac comments on Mar 25, 2019:
The narcisist is my flatmate and we have 3 months left on the tenancy and then, as far as I am aware, he's leaving. I love the flat and I was the one who did everything get us both moved in there and he treats me like I'm his 'staff'. I have no move now and I had take out a loan get the move ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
@KMac That is why I told you to stay out as long as you can to avoid him. Are you frightened to come and go into the flat as you please? Are you frightened about staying at your school library or research facility once it gets dark? Perhaps these are variables specific to you I am not factoring in. Especially if you have a bit of social anxiety or agorophobia.
Anyone out there dealt with narcissistic abuse?
KMac comments on Mar 25, 2019:
The narcisist is my flatmate and we have 3 months left on the tenancy and then, as far as I am aware, he's leaving. I love the flat and I was the one who did everything get us both moved in there and he treats me like I'm his 'staff'. I have no move now and I had take out a loan get the move ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
Do you have any friends or family members you can take a loan from? Or perhaps any credit cards that you could use to stay in a motel for some time? What I would do is stay out of the house as long as possible only to come back when she was going to sleep and then live my life at night heh. I would also use weekends to get out of the house and stay at friends' as often as possible, even spending the night. Please do not be afraid or ashamed to reach out to family or friends or peers in your program at this time for help. You do not have to tell them why, just make plans with people as often as possible and stay away from him as much as you can. If he does not have access to you, he cannot hurt you, unless he is stalking you too? If you absolutely cannot do that, then block him out. Listen to loud music or tv shows on your device any time you hear him start a phone convo.
Me: come on I've been on these dating sites for months without a single match. Why is that?
Novelty comments on Mar 25, 2019:
We all have a progressive disease that will worsen until we die. Sex is overrated and alone time is precious. We're not so different, but you don't have to believe that.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 27, 2019:
@MrChange Media like movies and tv shows and romance comedies definitely overrate and overemphasize sex. I think asexuals would agree that it is overrated in societies though. heh
As most of you know, I was otherwise occupied over the weekend but kept an eye on the group to see ...
Dancing comments on Mar 25, 2019:
Good call. I thought about personality blocking the individual, too.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@Doraz I've read through all the posts and also did not know why people thought he was such a great guy. He struck me as an incel time and time again.
As most of you know, I was otherwise occupied over the weekend but kept an eye on the group to see ...
Dancing comments on Mar 25, 2019:
Good call. I thought about personality blocking the individual, too.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
I blocked him. condescending twit that he was no wonder he is still single! It is not about him being ugly or poor as he often attributed it to.
What was your worst experience with someone from an online dating site?
demifeministgal comments on Mar 25, 2019:
guys picking fights with me over my feminist or SJW beliefs and then being like come over let's fck or the guy that in the first message literally asks me if I am into toilet training!! yughh. I told him to go to fetlife and he said he wasn't having luck there so is trying cupid and I told him he'll...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@ProudMerrie ooh gawd it is fckng disgusting. I had to ask too. Basically incorporating pee or scat into sex. But his thing was pee so I am still not sure if he wanted to be peed on or for me to pee on him. I didn't bother asking either option made me nauseous.
some people's stupidity is bloody hilarious.
glennlab comments on Mar 25, 2019:
If you are here for community, there are a lot of valid reasons to have a picture on an "other" as your profile pic. Not least of which is you want to. If you are here for dating, there can still be some reasons as long as there are real pictures in your profile.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
Exactly. It was under the advice of community members I changed my status to here for community (I legit didn't know it was a dating site when I joined) so I did not have to fight with men about my choice not to use my real pic.
some people's stupidity is bloody hilarious.
Pralina1 comments on Mar 25, 2019:
Y a pic of dog as profile is an animal abuse ??? That's ridiculous . Who ever told u that just wanted to start conversation w u and couldn't find anything else . I will like his name pls , if on this site , and I will love to troll that . Really .
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
he blocked me so I cannot remember his name. I remember it started with a P and he was listed as being 31. I suck with names he disappeared too fast! O.O
In my online (dating site) profile I have stated what I hope to convey is polite caution.
Stephanie99 comments on Mar 21, 2019:
I like it. I think that those who insist on getting personal info right away are impatient scammers.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
Or looking to hookup or sext ASAP
Welcome to @demifeministgal
Stephanie99 comments on Mar 21, 2019:
Welcome. I look forward to reading your posts and comments.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
go ahead and read em all! I have now read through all of the groups' posts and commented where applicable heh
What's one thing that a potential date might have in his/her profile that would get your immediate ...
Corvislover comments on Mar 13, 2019:
Childfree for life!!!
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
ooh shoot yes this too! Especially since young guys are in that breeding or soon to breed kinda mood
What's one thing that a potential date might have in his/her profile that would get your immediate ...
Allamanda comments on Mar 13, 2019:
be great to reverse this post and see what are the no-nos also?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@Allamanda nah it's just taken like a week for me. But only because sleep and work get in the way. :p
Insomnia causes worries about your ability to perform tomorrow.
bingst comments on Mar 24, 2019:
Both my insomnia and anxiety are less of a problem since I started trying to stay on top of my tryptophan and vitamin C intake.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@bingst ooh okay it is specific to tryptophan. I thought it was something recommended to help with insomnia. Thanks for the clarification!
some people's stupidity is bloody hilarious.
1of5 comments on Mar 25, 2019:
The hell? Sometimes I forget how stupid people can be.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@1of5 As you should! And as would I for any pet I had that was more deserving than him!
Chemistry in texting.. Anyone else notice it?
Cast1es comments on Mar 5, 2019:
My bios generated a LOT more interest , when I was much younger and had much less to say , because I knew a lot less . They weren't interested in intelligent conversation .
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
It's true. And if you are young(er) with lots to say and wanting an intellectual connection as well, you are shit out of luck. :/ cuz young(er) guys are sex obsessed.
Chemistry in texting.. Anyone else notice it?
AlexRam comments on Mar 5, 2019:
Given the statistics around communication, you only get words in texting. According to research that is only 7% of the communication are words, 55% is body language and 38% is voice tone. Given that you would not have those, statistically you are taking your chances. Plus your sample size is too ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@hippydog I LOL'd in the library. darn you! :p
some people's stupidity is bloody hilarious.
1of5 comments on Mar 25, 2019:
The hell? Sometimes I forget how stupid people can be.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
according to him we are both animal abusers... he blocked me so I think he was a trolling turd... lucky me X'D
Struggling so hard with loneliness and feelings of worthlessness.
germangirl90439 comments on Mar 25, 2019:
I so understand your feelings. As already said, we treasure you here. I remember the last time we chatted, you were talking about moving. Has that happened yet? Is that something you're looking forward to? What, if anything, can we do to help you? Hugs!
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@Marcie1974 CONGRATS on the interviews. That is an accomplishment and reflects that already 3 employers see immense value in you as a person. I admire you and wish I could have as much success as you. :)
Guys, this is getting under my skin and I need input.
Stephanie99 comments on Mar 3, 2019:
He's a little baby. He feels wronged by you and the rest of the world. He thinks that he is owed sex, especially if he spends any money on a woman. He is getting revenge for all the injustices he believes have been heaped upon him, not realizing how lucky he really is and how much worse so many have...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@Stephanie99 But have you been younger in the 21st century in the age of social media and internet fuckery? no
Guys, this is getting under my skin and I need input.
Stephanie99 comments on Mar 3, 2019:
He's a little baby. He feels wronged by you and the rest of the world. He thinks that he is owed sex, especially if he spends any money on a woman. He is getting revenge for all the injustices he believes have been heaped upon him, not realizing how lucky he really is and how much worse so many have...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
Trust me when I say, alot of the younger guys are single because they are jerks and assholes as well.
I went on date 2.
AnneWimsey comments on Mar 1, 2019:
You do not need any more friends?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@Stephanie99 One of my closest friends right now, that lives in the states, we met through okcupid. There was no interest romantically on my end, but we are so alike and share so many values that we are one of each others' best friends. Neither of us has had good luck with friends in our lives so there's that too. heh
Yuck, I had to send a "Dear John" letter to a lady I met online.
Dancing comments on Feb 28, 2019:
I just had to do this with a guy that caught feelings way to quick for me. (I'm just having fun texting and flirting and he knew that). I figured it would be best to end it. I get the feeling bad about it, but it gives some closure for them.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
yea I had to do that few years back with my rebound after my ex. I specifically told the new guy I am on the rebound and just looking to casually date and not get serious. And then he goes and catches feelings for me. I told him I was not looking to jump from 1 LTR to another and had to break it off with him.
Ok so we’re here because we’ve done online dating and had mixed experiences.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 24, 2019:
Some guy who's number I removed, so it must have either been a one date or no IRL date situation, messages me out of the blue asking how I've been saying he misses chatting with me. So I was like sorry who is this? And he's like wooow you don't remember me? That's how lil I meant to you? Like dude ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
@IrishTxJudy ooh that's a good strategy. I thought it was a high school friend tbh and they'd be like ooh hey it's me! But his reaction was like ooh nvm then. I will try to remember your suggestion for future as it is a good one! thanks :)
Insomnia causes worries about your ability to perform tomorrow.
bingst comments on Mar 24, 2019:
Both my insomnia and anxiety are less of a problem since I started trying to stay on top of my tryptophan and vitamin C intake.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 25, 2019:
why is vitamin C intake important? Or was it specific to you?
Being told how sexy you are in the first few messages. What do people think about this?
Cast1es comments on Feb 12, 2019:
About the same way a male would feel , if a woman opened a discussion by asking how much money he was worth , and how much he was willing to hand over to her , no strings attached . Instant turn off .
demifeministgal replies on Mar 24, 2019:
@Mike1947 Not true at all. Also, many men will not notice the way a woman is specifically styling her hair anyways. I guarantee you womens' sole purpose for dressing nice and doing our hair is not to attract men. Like I will not sometimes straighten my hair or use anti-frizz cream to attract men, fck that
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273kelvin comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Its hard but trial and error is a help. Firstly age, I would not expect any 30 somethings to even glance at my profile. Not that would object to them but its a waste of time to consider. Income, more of a factor for guys but not totally. If they like lots of foreign travel, eating out and being ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 23, 2019:
@273kelvin In my online dating time I had a long ass paragraph about myself and what I wanted (it didn't start off that way but I put it to try and dissuade cons and religious and MRAs from contacting me) and a few pictures up, both of face and body. But, since I was spurned by a narcissist in 2017 not only have I stopped seriously dating online, I've stopped dating altogether. I do not trust myself and my judgement atm and it is safer this way. We shall call it was it is a defense mechanism. :$
I swear I follow and discuss American politics online waaay more than Canadian.
Surfpirate comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Canadians follow American politics because when the elephant to the south sneezes we Canadian mice catch a cold. Canadians are much more aware of American politics because of the effect it has on our daily lives but Americans tend to be blissfully ignorant of Canada and most other nations in the ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 23, 2019:
@Surfpirate Well I was thinking about the research I read a number of times recently that showed more Americans than not do not have passports. They out number the travellers. And with their health costs soo damn expensive leading to debt sentences and their min wage being pathetically low and limited maternity leave, it makes sense why.
Reunion By Len Hazell "What am, I doing here?
demifeministgal comments on Mar 23, 2019:
why was my comment deleted exactly? The first guy is abusive, so I was just stating a fact. :s
demifeministgal replies on Mar 23, 2019:
@LenHazell53 oh the system gave me an update for this story too. Weird. Thanks
I Asked 6 Homeless People "What is the Happiest Part of Your Day?
Mitch07102 comments on Mar 23, 2019:
Something anyone can do for a homeless person: As you pass by, look them in the eye and say hello, or at least nod. The worst part of homelessness (and often, poverty even if housed) is the denial of one's humanity. It is free, and it always works.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 23, 2019:
That is so true. We had a homelessness course in uni and some students went out pretending to be homeless. And what they reported was that the dehumanization and being treated like lepers or ignored was probably the worst part of it all.
NOT SARCASM, GENUINELY CURIOUS: Reading through the posts here it has been suggested by some to rate...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Because there are so few men of the age I'd consider dating that are active on this site in my area, and some of them I've already dated, there is no need for me to categorize or rate anyone. Basically if they ask I will go out with them, except for some, BTDT, we're friends, and even then I might ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 23, 2019:
@HippieChick58 Thanks
What's the worst job you've had? Why?
memorylikeasieve comments on Mar 27, 2018:
Production office in a plastic thermoforming plant. They made clamshell cases and whatnot. There was a constant particle haze in the air and I went home every day with a terrible headache. The office had only just enough ventilation to make it not lethal, and there was a literal 15-degree ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 23, 2019:
I relate to your last sentence soo much, minus the narcolepsy and it fckng sucks :/
I've been broken up with my ex for about 4 months now.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 22, 2019:
If I may ask, how long were you two together? were you in love?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@RDBernard It's hard to get over one's first love, especially if you were still in love when it happened. I've heard some say give it half the duration of your relationship to truly get over your ex soo in your case 3.5 years. That's not a hard and fast rule. My ex and I were together 5 years but at least when it ended we had both fallen out of love. Keep opening up and venting and reaching out as you go through this process. :)
I swear I follow and discuss American politics online waaay more than Canadian.
Surfpirate comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Canadians follow American politics because when the elephant to the south sneezes we Canadian mice catch a cold. Canadians are much more aware of American politics because of the effect it has on our daily lives but Americans tend to be blissfully ignorant of Canada and most other nations in the ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
Not to mention, US-centrism is a helluva thing. And too many Muricans do not have passports nor have they ever left their own country their entire lives. They live in their tiny bubbles!
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CarolinaGirl60 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Here’s mine: I’m a bad-ass bitch, for an old curvy chick. Correction: a short, STUBBORN old curvy chick, lol.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
I like your rating the best. I shall have to adapt it to myself heh. I'm a badass b*tch for a young slender gal :)
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273kelvin comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Its hard but trial and error is a help. Firstly age, I would not expect any 30 somethings to even glance at my profile. Not that would object to them but its a waste of time to consider. Income, more of a factor for guys but not totally. If they like lots of foreign travel, eating out and being ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@273kelvin what is an NSA single??
NOT SARCASM, GENUINELY CURIOUS: Reading through the posts here it has been suggested by some to rate...
Rustee comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I have no desire to "rate" myself, but - as I am open to companionship from men - I am willing to share information about myself. How many men are going to believe us if we rate ourselves a perfect 10 in every category? Never mind that these are categories we develop specifically for ourselves, and ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
LOL I don't think I would rate myself a 10 in many categories. I rate myself as average, but you know what they say about us being our own worst critics at time?
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HippieChick58 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Because there are so few men of the age I'd consider dating that are active on this site in my area, and some of them I've already dated, there is no need for me to categorize or rate anyone. Basically if they ask I will go out with them, except for some, BTDT, we're friends, and even then I might ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
what does BTDT mean? :s
NOT SARCASM, GENUINELY CURIOUS: Reading through the posts here it has been suggested by some to rate...
AnneWimsey comments on Mar 22, 2019:
What? I have been on here quite awhile, both commenting & cruising for dates, usually check in 2-3 times a day,and have No clue what you are talking about! "Rating category"? Do you mean the point system for "posting/commenting" the Admin automatically adds?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
In the lengthy post this was written. Mind you it was months ago and many may have forgotten. "Firsty you have to be brutally honest with yourself. On the scale how do you rate? If you are a 6 then why is an 8 interested? ""
NOT SARCASM, GENUINELY CURIOUS: Reading through the posts here it has been suggested by some to rate...
273kelvin comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Its hard but trial and error is a help. Firstly age, I would not expect any 30 somethings to even glance at my profile. Not that would object to them but its a waste of time to consider. Income, more of a factor for guys but not totally. If they like lots of foreign travel, eating out and being ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
The calibre of guys that used to message me were perverts or guys with no boundaries, controlling or narcissistic type men, guys that couldn't keep up a convo because all they were looking was to get laid, the guys that ghosted, and the guys that came to pick a fight with me cuz of my feminism. Sooo based on that, not sure what my rating would be! heh
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Sticks48 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I don't understand what you are talking about.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@ProudMerrie I do not know if he will see your comment here since I blocked him. I don't need an old fogie with clear issues with young(er) women being condescending and domineering to me while simultaneously demanding respect. If I wanted that kind of shitty treatment, I have fam members for that shit. I don't need it here too.
I swear I follow and discuss American politics online waaay more than Canadian.
bookofmorons comments on Mar 22, 2019:
splitting votes can help to elect the cons . . . just a point not an endorsement
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
I voted liberal in my provincial elections and it didn't do shitall to keep the canadian trump from power here. At least if I had voted NDP I would have been satisfied I voted for the party I wanted to. Strategic voting doesn't always work, it seems. -_-
Someone posted this article the other day but I'm not sure where, maybe in the Love & Relationships ...
bleurowz comments on Feb 23, 2019:
I already do many of these things with a few long-distance friends (except for the romantic stuff). It works on a platonic level. But I don't know if I could sustain a long-distance romantic relationship indefinitely.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
Exactly. I was reading them and thinking huh, many of these I do with my best buddy in the states.
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hippydog comments on Mar 22, 2019:
Havent seen that talked about myself.. I consider myself a solid 4.. ?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
what criteria or features of yourself did you use to rate yourself?
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Sticks48 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I don't understand what you are talking about.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@Sticks48 One of the posts had this written in it: "Firsty you have to be brutally honest with yourself. On the scale how do you rate? If you are a 6 then why is an 8 interested? "
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Sticks48 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I don't understand what you are talking about.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@TomMcGiverin Take your own advice. All you have done is be a condescending twat to me this entire post. You got a bug up your arse or something? Geeze
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Sticks48 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I don't understand what you are talking about.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@TomMcGiverin Okay at this point I think you are trolling me. So let's just drop it. You questioned me directly I did not question you directly. IF anything YOU are bothering ME, not the reverse. -_-
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TomMcGiverin comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I think I know what you are asking, but I don't want all the drama it would cause if I answered you here on the boards. If you are truly interested in rating yourself or getting a rating from others so you can try to only pursue those at your own level or rating for looks, PM me and I will try to ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
I was not interested in learning about it to actually apply it to my dating but rather, to understand what people have in mind when they say it. Have you never heard of learning for its own sake? I am an intellectual (person that loves learning for its own sake) and was curious about it as a concept.
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Sticks48 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I don't understand what you are talking about.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@TomMcGiverin There was literally no snark in that reply. I think you are projecting. Or else you do not know what the word emoji means. Here is a definition: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emoji
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Sticks48 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I don't understand what you are talking about.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
@TomMcGiverin IT is a laughing emoji with eyes squinted closed. Look at it sideways to see :)
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Sticks48 comments on Mar 22, 2019:
I don't understand what you are talking about.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 22, 2019:
Let me find the style of comments I have in mind. XD
My group therapy last week and this (Wednesday Nights) was completely off the rails.
AncientNight comments on Mar 21, 2019:
It looks like you let that "guest speaker" get under your skin. You can't let things like that bring you down. Back in the early to late 70's (almost a full decade), I was between jobs more than I was working, until I found a job I really liked in Audio/Video retail sales. Take a deep breath and ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 21, 2019:
@Lillyfield41 I have the same pathetic problem (pathetic of me not of you). And it is best if someone or a furry pet is around to distract me while I am applying cuz otherwise I overthink and talk myself out of applying for anything at all! o.O :(
Now I have a table and small loveseat.
altschmerz comments on Mar 20, 2019:
What are children good for if they don't help you? Better not to have any! Hang in there. ?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 21, 2019:
Not all parents are deserving of help tbh even at their worst times. Not saying that this applies to carolina at all, but your blanket statement is too generalizing and stigmatizes NC adult kids. @Closeted
I really don't feel like living is worth it today.
Robecology comments on Mar 18, 2019:
If you don't feel it's worth it... Then quit the drama and pleas...and make room for others. People who plea for help just don't appreciate how lucky they are. I share this...but if you pass on....I'll not be sad....you never saw how lucky you are to be alive. Leave room for those who ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 19, 2019:
@RavenCT this dude was constantly spamming some author and some book or website to every post anyways.
Nudes.
Cutiebeauty comments on Mar 16, 2019:
I don't send nude photos of myself over the internet or anywhere else... Some things I keep private... I also don't like personal nudes sent to me... Different strokes for different folks ?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 19, 2019:
@Olnoseven LOL you know me too well.... I put tape on my laptop camera years ago and each new laptop cam gets a new tape piece. heh ^_^ :D
That annoying moment when a child is being a loud obnoxious brat in public and the only thing the ...
Wrytyr comments on Mar 18, 2019:
Complain to security or the store manager so that they speak to the parent. Make sure your continued patronage is known to be on the line.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 19, 2019:
I just put my headphones in tbh I didn't want to lug all my heavy stuff over to the counter to complain and I don't trust the people in that place not to rob me while I am complaining about an annoying kid
Nudes.
Cutiebeauty comments on Mar 16, 2019:
I don't send nude photos of myself over the internet or anywhere else... Some things I keep private... I also don't like personal nudes sent to me... Different strokes for different folks ?
demifeministgal replies on Mar 18, 2019:
I don't even have nudes of myself to send over the internet or to anyone. In the past with my ex we'd just skype, but knowing now about the govt watching I would never even do that again with anyone.
This is my tattoo guy.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 14, 2019:
honestly the ear extenders are gross to me. :/
demifeministgal replies on Mar 15, 2019:
@coralisthree mmkaay but this is hot hunks group soo what you got goin on doesn't matter in this context.
I haven't done one of these for a while. Be still my heart.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 12, 2019:
Love the arms... but the chest needs to be less hairy and a bit less bulgy ;)
demifeministgal replies on Mar 14, 2019:
@ProudMerrie IT is freezing where I live the majority of the year. fck shavin the legs. I need it to keep my slim body warm! :(
I haven't done one of these for a while. Be still my heart.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 12, 2019:
Love the arms... but the chest needs to be less hairy and a bit less bulgy ;)
demifeministgal replies on Mar 14, 2019:
@ProudMerrie just for men? or women too? :s
I haven't done one of these for a while. Be still my heart.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 12, 2019:
Love the arms... but the chest needs to be less hairy and a bit less bulgy ;)
demifeministgal replies on Mar 12, 2019:
@ProudMerrie oh there is definitely a generational divide. Back in the day the attractive men featured were typically hairy. Then when I was growing up and a teen until now it was the hairless that were attractive. My mother and I had difference in tastes regarding body hair on men. haha
I cross posted in an online dating group.
linxminx comments on Mar 2, 2019:
My experience with meeting men online is that it is almost always for sex, and for the most part, they are almost always married. Research statistics suggest 55% of the men online are married and are looking for sexual hook ups; 50% for women. You've got slightly more than a 50/50 chance that the ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 12, 2019:
@Phayon That sounds like me. Perhaps you are a demisexual as well?
My brother died 3 years ago today.
bleurowz comments on Mar 12, 2019:
I'm so sorry for your loss. Cancer took my sister, my mother, and a good friend, all within the last five years, and I've had my own battle with lymphoma (in remission since August 2017). It sucks.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 12, 2019:
cancer is a fckng bich I swear! It took my granny (who i realized way too late in my life and hers is more alike to me than any other family member) and my mother within a 2 year span. And now my grampa has been diagnosed so he will be the next one it takes. ffs >:(
I did something yesterday that I didn't want to do.
Dandewine comments on Mar 7, 2019:
I'm on the other side of that story..sad and weepy too. I have no choice but to move forward.
demifeministgal replies on Mar 8, 2019:
@Mike1947 It definitely is possible to be friends with a man. But those barriers need to be firmly in place and as long as neither party catches feelings for the other, everything is fine.
I haven’t been very active in this group but I’m really struggling tonight.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 7, 2019:
If that works for you, that is fantastic! Unfortunately for others we believe the negative we were taught and any new negatives thrown our way and disregard or do not believe the positives. Gotta love negative reinforcements :/
demifeministgal replies on Mar 7, 2019:
@Marcie1974 I understand. My mother was a hyper fem girly girl and me and my sister were not (me a bit more than my sister to be fair). So she criticized everything from our attire to our hair to our skin and just gave us things to hate about our appearance. But as a toxic narc hyper focused on looks, she felt threatened by our youth and her aging and felt she was in some twisted competition with us! The most fckd up was her getting jealous of attention I got from my father.... she assumed it to be sexual when it never was. I also strive for people to see beyond my appearance (I would say I am avg looking) and to like me for my good traits and intelligence rather than just look at me as a fck toy to be used (they don't get to since I am demisexual, but it still hurts. :/ )
I haven’t been very active in this group but I’m really struggling tonight.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 7, 2019:
If that works for you, that is fantastic! Unfortunately for others we believe the negative we were taught and any new negatives thrown our way and disregard or do not believe the positives. Gotta love negative reinforcements :/
demifeministgal replies on Mar 7, 2019:
@Marcie1974 Exactly. Sometimes both internally and externally, unfortunately.
I cross posted in an online dating group.
demifeministgal comments on Mar 6, 2019:
ughhh what a bloody man-child! He brings up cost, again, and then he plays that teenage BS card of trying to make you jealous saying he has all these other options. FCK THIS GUY! You deserve better than this and than him. Let him return the book at low-cost and after that I'd be done with him. I ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 6, 2019:
@CarolinaGirl60 ooh okay. Initially I thought the book was important to you like had some special sentimental value. But if it's just any old book, then yea best idea to go NC with him.
I have not completely recovered from abuse.
SidneyWinston comments on Feb 6, 2019:
It's embarrassing to admit that at my age (62) I still suffer from childhood PTSD. This has been part of my life for well over 50 years now and even with therapy and medication I doubt that I will ever experience a day without emotional pain. Those flashbacks that suddenly sneak up on me out of ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 6, 2019:
May I ask, are there meds that actually HELP with C-PTSD or do they just make the anxiety from the triggers less intense or less long?
I cross posted in an online dating group.
linxminx comments on Mar 2, 2019:
My experience with meeting men online is that it is almost always for sex, and for the most part, they are almost always married. Research statistics suggest 55% of the men online are married and are looking for sexual hook ups; 50% for women. You've got slightly more than a 50/50 chance that the ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 6, 2019:
"Not all, as some enjoy the challenge and pursuit, but those who want the woman to make it easy will fall by the wayside fairly quickly." I swear I have this problem with toxic fckboys (womanizers) that think of me as a challenge to "win over". Which frign sucks cuz you think they actually give a crap about you as they invest so much time and effort, only to find out down the line it was all a game for them. >:(
Although I fully anticipated a return of depression following the huge fire that took my home and ...
demifeministgal comments on Mar 5, 2019:
https://www.verywellhealth.com/grief-and-mourning-process-1132545
demifeministgal replies on Mar 6, 2019:
@Justjoni no problem. Glad to have helped
sexy as fck ;) ^_^
UrsiMajor comments on Mar 5, 2019:
What was it they said about "Once you go black...?"
demifeministgal replies on Mar 5, 2019:
@CaroleKay I am neither blonde nor do I think I have a big butt (though we are our own worst critics?) But that hasn't stopped me from dating non-white men ;) The right man will luv us slim gals too ;D
If you're poor, would you date?
ukuwi comments on Jan 27, 2019:
I think this is a good question, because i tend be the one who pays for everything every time i go out, when my resource are low I do not bother, in 8 years of dating only 1 woman has insisted on paying half and strangely we are still friends, i have dated rich and poor women and they nearly all ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 5, 2019:
@AnneWimsey I also prefer going dutch and always offer to pay half... mostly because young men that pay even for the slightest coffee expect sex in return (if I were a whore, I sure as fck would not be such a cheap one!) so this way cuts their expectations. But I was told by some men that doing so indicates to men I am not interested in them romantically. pffft you cannot win with whiny guys I swear XD
sexy as fck ;) ^_^
UrsiMajor comments on Mar 5, 2019:
What was it they said about "Once you go black...?"
demifeministgal replies on Mar 5, 2019:
It's true... never gone back ;) though to be fair I never tried white to begin with. heh
So, I'm very curious.
Marcie1974 comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Good luck with this. There is a group geared to just pictures (yes, mostly of women). I commented on a couple of the posts but apparently it doesn’t matter. I’m with you though. I’m here for deviancy and kink....if I want to look at naked women with “perfect” bodies, I’d grab a ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 2, 2019:
@Marcie1974 who the heck was shaming you? Calling dom men misogynistic and objectifying somehow is a shaming against you personally? lady you must be confused.
So, I'm very curious.
Marcie1974 comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Good luck with this. There is a group geared to just pictures (yes, mostly of women). I commented on a couple of the posts but apparently it doesn’t matter. I’m with you though. I’m here for deviancy and kink....if I want to look at naked women with “perfect” bodies, I’d grab a ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 2, 2019:
@Wildflower honestly I got the impression that kink men were misogynistic and objectifying.... :s
I found this meme on a blog I like. It's so true.
HippieChick58 comments on Feb 20, 2019:
I don't think life sucks. I think life is difficult, and sometimes/often frustrating, but life is still good. Now cancer sucks big time. Chemo is a choice and it is one I think I will not choose, but that depends on type of cancer, etc, which is a bridge I will cross only if I absolutely have to. ...
demifeministgal replies on Mar 1, 2019:
@HippieChick58 oh wow your cat is way better than my sister's dog then! He will go fetch but never brings it back! He likes being chased! heh
dr thomas szasz. dr carl hart dr john breeding they will all tell you the truth. what is the truth?
demifeministgal comments on Feb 22, 2019:
Your scientific illiteracy, ignorance and confirmation bias (3 quacks out of millions of doctors... great research there... NOT) are noted. I guess all those people in pharmaceutical studies and pharmacology are wasting their time cuz 3 docs said so... pfffft
demifeministgal replies on Mar 1, 2019:
@Annaleda his comment did come across as scientifically illiterate and it was ignorant (we are all ignorant about something as we do not all know everything). It was factual rather than "mean".
dr thomas szasz. dr carl hart dr john breeding they will all tell you the truth. what is the truth?
demifeministgal comments on Feb 22, 2019:
Your scientific illiteracy, ignorance and confirmation bias (3 quacks out of millions of doctors... great research there... NOT) are noted. I guess all those people in pharmaceutical studies and pharmacology are wasting their time cuz 3 docs said so... pfffft
demifeministgal replies on Mar 1, 2019:
@KeithBernard I definitely did not vote for Trump because THANKFULLY I am not American and will never be. There needs to be a wall to keep y'all out of here ;)
Help! I need advice.
Ron_R comments on Feb 13, 2019:
It all needs to be upfront, stated and all but my first inclination is to just be friends, no benefits.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 22, 2019:
@KKGator don't play dumb one does not have to swear in order to be confrontational.
Crazy how thoughts of what happened with my Dad and his wife pop in and out of my head.
altschmerz comments on Feb 17, 2019:
It really sounds like PTSD to me. That must be so hard to deal with. I have a friend with PTSD and he has nightmares, flashbacks, etc - it’s because of experiences he had in high school, and he’s 40 years old! You said you’re in therapy right? I think this is something you have to keep dealing...
demifeministgal replies on Feb 22, 2019:
@Kynlei if you can also bring up C-PTSD and complex trauma as those are over longer periods of time and tend to be caused by families. Here is a great video explaining it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otxAuHG9hKo=IwAR14TwatfWdSqS1KdMVyI26PU_8_23JfY3T9G7Zyq8-Cy2mliMT2p-tcppY
I found this meme on a blog I like. It's so true.
HippieChick58 comments on Feb 20, 2019:
I don't think life sucks. I think life is difficult, and sometimes/often frustrating, but life is still good. Now cancer sucks big time. Chemo is a choice and it is one I think I will not choose, but that depends on type of cancer, etc, which is a bridge I will cross only if I absolutely have to. ...
demifeministgal replies on Feb 22, 2019:
I'll replace a samsam with a cute animal instead personally ;)
Here is another very brave woman, standing up for truth.
Redheadedgammy comments on Feb 14, 2019:
It seems that the men in Canada's government are just as sexist as the men in the U.S. government....
demifeministgal replies on Feb 15, 2019:
Sadly they are sexist all over the world... we cannot escape sexist men, especially the covert ones :/
Help! I need advice.
Ron_R comments on Feb 13, 2019:
It all needs to be upfront, stated and all but my first inclination is to just be friends, no benefits.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 15, 2019:
@KKGator why would I block you? I just felt your approach would not convince her of anything cuz it was too confrontational and would get her on the defensive... better she think things through and realize it's wrong on her own rather than people just tell her it is wrong and her going with that without knowing why. Why would I block you though? You can block me if you want... cuz why else mention blocking? hehe
Help! I need advice.
Ron_R comments on Feb 13, 2019:
It all needs to be upfront, stated and all but my first inclination is to just be friends, no benefits.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 14, 2019:
@KKGator First of all the husband doesn’t belong to the wife so he can’t be stolen. He can choose to go a different path than the wife, which sucks. And if I were to do the same and sleep with a married man (I wouldn't, calm yourself) I’m not committing a theft of someone’s property. Let’s not for one minute forget that each person is responsible for their own actions. Not to mention, if the guy is not a sack of shit he would decline her advances or ignore her. Why is everyone acting like because she makes her feelings known the guy will automatically cheat? Plenty of guys made their attraction known to me when I was in a LTR I never took any up on their offer, cuz I was loyal to my partner.
I could not find his name last night, but shemar moore is hot to me too :D <3 ;)
graceylou comments on Feb 13, 2019:
You all do know he’s lead actor in SWAT now, right? It’s one of my favourite shows. Soooo good and he’s even hotter than in Criminal Minds.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 14, 2019:
@graceylou Is SWAT any good?
I could not find his name last night, but shemar moore is hot to me too :D <3 ;)
graceylou comments on Feb 13, 2019:
You all do know he’s lead actor in SWAT now, right? It’s one of my favourite shows. Soooo good and he’s even hotter than in Criminal Minds.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 13, 2019:
I just knew him from criminal minds
To be honest, I have to admit I wouldn't know the first thing about how to raise another human ...
mordant comments on Feb 13, 2019:
I was convinced I'd be awesome. Today, 40 years later, I joke that I'm not the man I used to be ... in fact, I never *was* the man I used to be. I think the young often are particularly good at overestimating benefits and underestimating difficulties.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 13, 2019:
Then I am already old at heart since I underestimate benefits and overestimate difficulties XD heh
I found the old spice guy attractive B-) :D
Stephanie99 comments on Feb 13, 2019:
Except his voice.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 13, 2019:
@thinktwice He does indeed I like the ladies look at me and now at your man and now back at me quip heh
Coby Bell from the game was/is hot :D
UrsiMajor comments on Feb 13, 2019:
That's pretty much what the Salamanca brothers would look like in a tux. Thank you for that.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 13, 2019:
post the salamanca brothers in the group! I am not familiar with them :(
I found the old spice guy attractive B-) :D
Cutiebeauty comments on Feb 13, 2019:
Planters Peanuts model? Jaha
demifeministgal replies on Feb 13, 2019:
Is that another gig he had? I haven't followed his career tbh
I found the old spice guy attractive B-) :D
Stephanie99 comments on Feb 13, 2019:
Except his voice.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 13, 2019:
But was I listening to his voice or looking at his perfect smile and lovely body? ;)
A woman's place is in the house.
brentan comments on Feb 10, 2019:
They'll always need housemaids.
demifeministgal replies on Feb 11, 2019:
your joke was bad and you should feel bad :/
I ran across a friend who was in a similar situation that I was recovering from.
demifeministgal comments on Jan 31, 2019:
What the heck are these supposed seven centers of consciousness? How does this author define or conceptualize consciousness?
demifeministgal replies on Feb 7, 2019:
@Robecology IT literally sounds like a new age spin on Maslow's hierarchy of needs then. heh
I ran across a friend who was in a similar situation that I was recovering from.
demifeministgal comments on Jan 31, 2019:
What the heck are these supposed seven centers of consciousness? How does this author define or conceptualize consciousness?
demifeministgal replies on Feb 5, 2019:
@Robecology hmmm I prefer Maslow's hierarchy of needs anyways myself. Yours is too spiritual sounding I do not believe in "chakras" at all.
Well, it’s the two year anniversary of my wife leaving me on Christmas while I was in the hospital...
Rob1948 comments on Dec 24, 2018:
Right there with you. My first did it 35 years ago today.
demifeministgal replies on Dec 25, 2018:
@MissKathleen @Annaleda here's some

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