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A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
Jul 16, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by SaucyCheryl
Be my true self...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 22, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by hippydog
Sooo.. The ex and i broke up again, we didn't even make it two months this round.. Difference this time is we completely flamed out hard, like "lets not ever talk to each other ever again" type of breakup. Comment from a friend (who knew me well)...
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Real Intimacy
Aug 27, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by EyesThatSmile
I have been guilty of this! It certainly seems like the easier route to take. "We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love." Tom Robbins
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Real Intimacy
Sep 9, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by MissKathleen
We had nothing in common.
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Real Intimacy
Sep 9, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by nomorechristian
This is the kind of bullshit thinking that I'm trying to recover from.
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Real Intimacy
Apr 12, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
On the topic of porn- porn stars are paid actors and actresses. Does porn,in your opinion ,really represent human sexuality? Does it accurately portray what men and women want sexually? Has it affected your expectations of what sex should be?
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Real Intimacy
Apr 13, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by phil21
It is an established fact that my wife does not crave physical intimacy like I do. Am I doing something wrong? Or can I do something different/better?
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Real Intimacy
May 31, 2018May 2018

Posted by Cherie44
Here’s my question, and I k I already know the answer; I’ll let calmer heads prevail. When I joined I explained how I caught my husband in an online relationship, and karma being what it is, she turned out to be a catfish. It was like a freaking...
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Real Intimacy
Jun 17, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by UUNJ
Has anyone seen the film Lars and the Real Girl? It is about a guy who turns to a life-sized doll to help him learn how to relate to people (not sexually). It’s charming. I wonder what qualities in others (people, not dolls or pets) you find ...
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Real Intimacy
Jun 21, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by CraeftSmith
So, a little help here? I have always been the kind of person who waits by the phone, while the other person is off living their life. I am emotionally supportive, but don't know how to be supported. What are some simple things I can do to stop being...
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Real Intimacy
Jun 26, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by OpposingOpposum
A friend of mine likes to point out that perfect partners don't exist. No one is ever going to tick all the little boxes on your wishlist. He's entirely correct, of course. g is I k I must be a perfectionist. I'm aware my standards are going ...
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Real Intimacy
Aug 9, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Montesblues
Longing for something never known.
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Real Intimacy
Sep 25, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Cabsmom
I think it takes a while to really love someone. I've had two men that I almost went out with (not from dating sites) that declared feelings for me that were way too much that early. That stresses me out and drives me away.
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Real Intimacy
Sep 25, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Cabsmom
A man I had a casual relationship with misunderstood when I told him I cared about him. He told me that I wasn't supposed to fall in love (part of the "deal.") I told him I wasn't in love. Truth be told I cared about him as a friend, and it was my ...
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Real Intimacy
Apr 8, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Lee-Timber
Women of all ages. How important is penis size to you in relationships. I think it’s a very intimidating thing for guys. Thoughts???
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Real Intimacy
Apr 9, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
In this age of technology, how do you feel about internet relationships? Is distant love possible?
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Real Intimacy
Apr 13, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by LetzGetReal
How do you feel about a belief in a soul mate, one person who fulfills your ideal? Someone mentioned a "star-mate"; I like the sound of this yet believe there can be a lot of options in our eclectic world. My issue re a soul mate, in part, stems ...
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Real Intimacy
Apr 15, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Leonard
At 87 I still think women are God's gift to men. I've had two marriages and many love affairs and am always looking for more.
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Real Intimacy
Apr 16, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Lee-Timber
Ok here goes..hold on to your seats. For women. Do you enjoy/love//hate anal penetration? I’ve never tried it. Thoughts???
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Real Intimacy
Apr 18, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Did having children change your relationship with your spouse or significant other? In what way? Did it enhance your relationship?
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Real Intimacy
May 13, 2018May 2018

Posted by Marcie1974
This cracked me up.
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Real Intimacy
May 21, 2018May 2018

Posted by Theskeptic
I have a question for you ladies. I'm an older guy, 68, but I'm good condition. My spouse of 25 plus years is younger than me by 10. For the first 20 years she was responsive to my sexual needs. For the last 5 plus years she has become celibate....
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Real Intimacy
Jun 27, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by tryingcake
This is nothing new. And anyone that had at least psych 101 should have studied this. I just thought this is worth pondering. Your thoughts on the content?
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Real Intimacy
Jul 8, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by BJANINE
I found this relevant, to this group. How can we really have true, honest intimacy if there are parts of us still operating from a place of shame? I think most people, at our core, desire to be loved, without conditions. How can we hope it from ...
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Real Intimacy
Sep 8, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Nukdookum
This is a great chart. Succinct. Clear. With respect at the center of everything. I would add communication in the middle as well but that's just me.
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Posted by UnitySomeday my princess will appear before me. ❤️

Posted by AtheistPeace666Hello I'm a single Canuck looking for my special lady Canuck.

Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

Posted by Philip21over the top thinking? [agnostic.com]

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