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Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
Jun 30, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by ejbman
POLLInformal poll about ghosting:
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Real Intimacy
Jul 1, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by EricAngevine
I'm learning a lot about real intimacy this year. I had a very intense 2-1/2 year relationship with someone who ran hot-and-cold and could never commit. I felt like it was something unique being "done to me," but I've done a lot of reading since and ...
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 1, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by ejbman
Proposed new term: emosexual. If asexual is on the left of the curve, and demisexual is in the left-middle, this would be to the right of (typically) sexual but still left of hypersexual. Unlike demisexuals who require an emotional connection prior ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 2, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by RoyMillar
Real intimacy. Laid out bare
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Real Intimacy
Jul 6, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Freespirit64
I feel like this is true...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 6, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by HippieChick58
Be true. Be real. Be you.
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Real Intimacy
Jul 6, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by SKH78
I kind of wish I had a significant other. But it is very difficult to find someone who thinks like me. I had one really good relationship that lasted a few years. He was eccentric and could easily think outside the box. It is, on occasion, ...
18 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 8, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by FlippantLlama
So, I've started going on dates. It's eye opening, and I am learning fast what questions to ask. Even though I'm not ready to get into a relationship right away, it feels like I'm doing job interviews. Thanks to my Hippy friend, I've kept my ...
19 comments
Shared from General & Hellos
Jul 9, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Dogsnotdogma
Married for 34 years. Mostly good, some great and some tough. Spent pretty much all of 2015 in treatment for an aggressive breast cancer and he helped me but i guess got hooked on the attention and has developed a severe case of personal pity , sad ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 10, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by rsb97080
I have yet to experience this 😞
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Real Intimacy
Jul 10, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by CuriosityExtant
Dave’s 4Personalities Theory In Relationships Relax. Open your mind, and come along with me on a journey into the human mind. Together, we will consider the four active personalities that exist within our minds. We carry many more personality ...
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Shared from General & Hellos
Jul 10, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Dogsnotdogma
Mmm so last night I put extra effort in and it was awesome with sprinkles! Made getting up at 5 am tough we arent in our 20's anymore. I do miss those crazy stupid days when we could get busy anytime anywhere.....secluded( prob not enough but we ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 11, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by CuriosityExtant
POLLEmotional Is the Truest Intimacy It's also the most elusive, but I KNOW it has to be possible. I just have to get the word out and get some people start working with it. I did not read about this anywhere. I found it on my own. While I was alone. ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 12, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by CuriosityExtant
POLLEmotional Is the Truest Intimacy It's also the most elusive, but I KNOW it has to be possible. I just have to get the word out and get some people start working with it. I did not read about this anywhere. I found it on my own. While I was ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 13, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by KRenfro
What am I do? I have been with a woman several years, she is amazing and wonderful in every way except when it comes sex. The vanilla sex only comes on occasion, and only after a long back rub followed by a self-turn-on routine. Not that she is ...
10 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 13, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by CuriosityExtant
POLLThe Meeting Bubble This is useful for many situations, say for instance, meeting new "friends" from the web in person for the first time can be pretty weird – everyone is different in person. Look at it this way: If you have spent some time, ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 13, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by DerekMcElwee
What would you do if the person you were with for 5 years turned out to be an alcoholic and drank to escape the stress in their life, and as a result, they end up cheating on you? Would you say they were 100% responsible for their actions, or would ...
18 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 14, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Freespirit64
I wasn't sure where to post this, but here may be a good spot, as the level of one's emotional maturity has a direct impact on the relationships we have. The "intelligence" should have been replaced with "maturity", but the article brings up good ...
5 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 15, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Booklover
Hello, I just discovered that I belong to this group even though I have no memory of joining. Lol. I've never had any alerts from here. I see some familiar faces so to speak. I've gone back and read a lot of your posts and see why I joined. You are...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 16, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by CuriosityExtant
What if... There is no perfect match. But people want to be told sincerely and treated like they're just perfect, and they want somebody who will give them what they currently need, (as it changes, so you have to keep paying attention). And in ...
17 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 16, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by RonWilliam53
Anybody ever end a relationship and feel both good and bad about doing it? seems like doing the right thing isn't often black or white.
18 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 16, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by SaucyCheryl
Be my true self...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 16, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by rsb97080
POLLMy apologies if this has come up before. Is there such a person as a soulmate?
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Real Intimacy
Jul 17, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by JGal
Another passage from Gordon Livingston's book, Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart, Thirty True Things You Need to Know Now. The lesson seems to be twofold. 1) When it comes to the words "I love you," actions speak louder than words no matter how much you ...
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Real Intimacy
Jul 18, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by UUNJ
For anyone (esp. women-identified people) raised in a sexually shame-based atmosphere, a new resource is available. Linda Kaye Klein, the author of PURE: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation and How I Broke Free has released a ...
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Posted by UnitySomeday my princess will appear before me. ❤️

Posted by AtheistPeace666Hello I'm a single Canuck looking for my special lady Canuck.

Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

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Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

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