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Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
Nov 12, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by fattafinga
Hello, I am a Dom who engages in primarily BDSM relationships. I would like to open a discussion on the stigma associated with the life which seems to imply that BDSM relationships are all about sex and not romantic or intimate. In my experience ...
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Nov 12, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Grahame
An interesting list. I hadn’t read Lolita so I read it and watched the 1996 movie in the past week. Apparently there is disagreement over whether this is child pornography or great literature. It is erotic and intimate but I found the language ...
5 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 13, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Naftusja
I see intimacy as a derivative of three main components: intellectual connection, physical connection, and spiritual connection (not relating to religion in any aspects, but deeper understanding of a person's continuous and subconscious drivers). As ...
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 16, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by wonderandlisten
I am reading book that presents some of the best thinking I have seen on the subject of love and intimacy. It is The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt. Chapter 6 is especially illuminating. He makes the point that romantic love has two aspects,...
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Real Intimacy
Nov 18, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by FearlessFly
"Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love." :P
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Real Intimacy
Nov 20, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Allamanda
maybe I should put this in 'Silly' -
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Real Intimacy
Nov 20, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by LuvLayne
Do any other people enjoy their favorite music playing while having sex? I really get turned on by it, especially songs by The Doors, Led Zeppelin, David Bowie and other rock bands. Maybe my history of loving to dance is entwined with sex ❤
42 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 22, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by DavidRooney
So how do you reconcile heavenly light shining down after really good sex..?? Enigma was playing and it was very weird
15 comments
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Nov 27, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by JGal
Some interesting insights to relationships, love and intimacy.
9 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 29, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by rsb97080
If “true love” really exists, this is part of it (and no, I’m not fat. Merely making a point.)
13 comments
Real Intimacy
Dec 2, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by bryerwood
Being a man "of a certain age," I find I have a lot of questions about my identity and relationships in a culture so hyper focused on sex and sexuality that everything is seen through the lens of gender. I would like to find or form a group the ...
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Dec 15, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by OuroborosBoy
I'm at a basic level with this. I've been married twice and my second ex (with whom I had my children) still loves me. But I'm spectrum and bi-polar and don't expect to ever find a woman who will be able to deal with me
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Real Intimacy
Dec 15, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by MFAtheist
I didn't want to post this anywhere on my personal social media so folks I know more personally, relatives or otherwise, wouldn't get the wrong idea (as is often the case) and start inquiring about my emotional state. This song just gets me. Every ...
2 comments
Real Intimacy
Dec 20, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by RonWilliam53
Don't know whether to file this under Compliment or Insult: I'm in play and we have to share a dressing room (m/f/etc.). I'm picking out bits and pieces when the half my age actress comes in, stands next to me and starts stripping down to her ...
22 comments
Real Intimacy
Dec 29, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by UrsiMajor
How long do most people wait before having sex? The article gives some surprising answers.
33 comments
Real Intimacy
Jan 5, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by Kenoaks
I've been on the dating site that Matches you. And now, here, which I guess is semi a dating site? And because I feel like I am a fairly atypical person, I despair of finding someone close to me, and the web allows a broader search geographically ...
12 comments
Real Intimacy
Jan 17, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by JustLuAnn
Sapiosexual I am a sapiosexual. This means "a person who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing." I like men of high intellect. Talking is sexy to me. It arouses my intellect. I think we are more than just an empty shell. Just what ...
31 comments
Real Intimacy
Jan 22, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by wrrider100
How do i go about finding a woman that can be (talk or physical) intimate??? By that i mean a kind of sharing our deepest desires etc with each other without judgment or shaming??
15 comments
Real Intimacy
Jan 29, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by DavidDuhon
There is that phrase--if you give away the milk for free, no one will want to buy the cow. I hope we are finally getting beyond the point of seeing sex as an object owned by women that should be sold for marriage. As a poly person, I have been both...
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Real Intimacy
Jan 29, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by Borgovic
I just wonder how many heterosexual guys out there have actually had s homosexual encounter....even when they were young....will they come out on this site to admit it....if they haven't would they admit that they have thught about it....how many ...
20 comments
Real Intimacy
Jan 30, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by Snuzz
Ive been single for so long its crazy. I always seem to meet people that are emotionally available to be in a relationship, want to be with an ftm transgender man, or don't ghost me when i tell them i don't believe in god.
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Real Intimacy
Jan 31, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by wrrider100
I agree with most, that real intimacy includes sex, that is sex that is unrestricted, as well as everything else. In my opinion, restricted sex does not promote intimacy.
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Real Intimacy
Feb 1, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by EyesThatSmile
I think a test group of 120 women is small and that hormones (or reduction of) is another culprit to the problem. Your thoughts?
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Real Intimacy
Feb 1, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by Mermaidfantasy
I was asked a question by the man I have been seeing for the past 10 weeks and did not have a good answer for him, would love to hear how others think on this. His question was" how can I trust how I feel when everything is so new in our ...
23 comments
Real Intimacy
Feb 18, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by bobwjr
This is intimacy
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Posted by UnitySomeday my princess will appear before me. ❤️

Posted by AtheistPeace666Hello I'm a single Canuck looking for my special lady Canuck.

Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

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