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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 1, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Last night I got together with family for one of my grand daughters birthday. She turned 18 yesterday and we all had a lovely time out together. I am finding that these gatherings are pretty difficult for me, but I push through them. Thanksgiving ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 2, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by MsHoliday
Together in my dreams.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 2, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by mikebeed
Virginia passed 3 years ago. Since then, weird things have happened. I had a party this summer with our old friends. Out of nowhere Virginia's daughter showed up. A lady in Walmart said"Hi Mike", it could have been her twin. Certain songs have come ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 4, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Death changes everything.?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 5, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Missing you at Christmas ???
5 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 7, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Rose2U
Today is my good friends husband services. I dont feel I can go even if I am working. Is that bad of me? I thought bringing food on the weekend is a better option.
9 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 11, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sorcha
My ex husband died last night from a long fight with cancer. I knew he was sick but I had no idea it was stage 4 when they found it years ago. He wanted me to know he was sick and told mutual friends. I got an email from his sister Saturday saying...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 16, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
To those we loved❤
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 17, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Today I went to see my nutritionist/counselor and she tells me I am not taking care of myself so well right now. I'm not eating correctly, nor drinking enough water, nor getting enough exercise. I know this is true. I haven't been taking very good...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 18, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by MsHoliday
So very true for me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 19, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
In memory ❤
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 19, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Dancing
Today is the day we always celebrated meeting. 14 years ago. I broke down when I realized the date. We never did anything special but we always acknowledged it. He was so sweet to me. He loved me so much. I miss him. I don't feel like sharing this ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 19, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Ron_R
So...since July, I've had an up and down journey with a local lady. She is foreign/had obstacles, but has a real live life to the fullest attitude! Be your best, look your best, explore etc, etc. Me? Coming off the loss of my wife is still a ...
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 20, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by RavenCT
If you guys are cool with it - I'm going to join just to keep an eye out for scammers. This seems to be one of the groups they target when they get smarter (ie when they get booted a time or two from the site and learn how to navigate around a bit ...
11 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 20, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Gypsy494
I am trying to keep busy even more so than usual.BUT Jan 14 ( Lost my love last Jan 14) is fast approaching. Im in a new town / state feeling lost , scared, alone and even more heartbroken. Any ideas? How do you cope on that terrible anniversary?
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 24, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Always remember ❤
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 24, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Dancing
I cried when I wrapped presents for my kids because I realized I had wrote from Mom. Not from Mom and Dad.
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 29, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by MsHoliday
Healing. I really did expect the dotted line.
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 30, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sorcha
I went to my ex husband's memorial last night. It was good to see people I never thought I'd see again like his best friend, my brother in law, and my niece and nephew. Someone from his high school said that when they ran into one another a few ...
2 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 30, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by leea
I really hate being a member of this group. My wife, Kathy, died July 1, 2017. We'd been together for 36 years and I wanted nothing more than to get old together. That can never happen and it just makes me so angry. Ironically I joined this site to ...
14 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 31, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Dancing
Binary Star Brad and I were a Binary Star. We orbited each other and our lives orbited around us. Now his sun is gone. I have to find my new orbit. Some of my planets, moons, or asteroids are going to be lost. And there will be room for new things ...
2 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 31, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Gypsy494
Not doing this again ..... but over the holidays I am working myself to the ground so not to think. First holidays without hubby. Result exhausted and sad. Supposed to be going to daughter in laws family tonight after I get home from work. Wish I ...
14 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 31, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by RavenCT
@AncientNight - You might consider bringing the Required Member Level to a 4. Or even a 5. It helps to keep the scammers out. Some of them do head directly here. Distasteful as hell if you ask me. Makes me want a "smack" button on my keyboard....
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 2, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by MsHoliday
Trigger warning. This is one of my favorite poems: The Violin Wept The violin wept it’s tears in the rain Wept like a heart that is rent with pain Wept of sorrows too deep to express Whispered of longing too secret to guess. Only the ...
5 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 2, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Gypsy494
We all never asked for this and onward we bravely find our way.
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.

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