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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 3, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Sheannutt
The loss you feel ?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 6, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Zster
I have decided to embrace even the smallest pleasures in this life, partially to fill the gaping hole left by loss, but also, because all things are fleeting, eventually. Currently, that equates with adding splashes of color where I can. That ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 7, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Hey folks. I swear I'll never get back to sleeping normal. 2019 will be the year I sleep again ...maybe. I think I'll have to get a new bed. I have a sleep comfort in a queen. Underneath is like two separate single inflatables and it just ...
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 11, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Larry-new
BWV 1004 Bach Chaconne, Raphaella Smits, guitar. Words absolutely fail me on this performance. Written upon the death of his wife.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 11, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by NoIdea
I lost my wife of 23 years to pancreatic cancer on Nov 1st 2018. The grieving process has been 'interesting'. I have realised that I started to grieve shortly after her diagnosis 2 years ago. Being knowledgeable about cancer, it's treatment and ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 11, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by MsHoliday
This is one of my favorite poems and one that resonates with me these days.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 12, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Rose2U
As a mom and a widow. We want to be happy and also want our kids to be.How did you handle telling your child you are dating? If they say one thing but act another. My son is 20 and met the new man in my life last night. I was nervous. I know it's ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 12, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Ron_R
I somehow find myself with no one to talk to. My stressful girlfriend is gone, my family is indifferent and I was never fond of Kim's family. My daughter is there, but I don't want to unload on her. I so wish to talk to my wife. We were best ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 14, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Ok...here goes: I have this dream about Kim. A few times actual. It's weird and jolts me to the core. It's of a video. Someone puts in a video (like VHS) and the scene crackles in with her in pain on the ground/ floor waiting to be helped. The ...
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 16, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Sheannutt
I remember yesterday ❤
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 21, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Dancing
Sometimes I feel so alone in my grief. But I want it that way, too. I don't want to post on Facebook but I feel like I am supposed to. He would have been 40 today. I have been avoiding thinking about it but his neice posted that on Facebook and it ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 21, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by ArthurK
It has been almost 4 years since cancer took my wife of 43 1/2 years. I think about her every day. And although the pain has subsided a bit it is still there. And the lingering question - why. But since I still live I must go on. The adjustment, as ...
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 21, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Masondixonline
I lost my wife to lymphoma three and a half years ago. I was and still am bothered by individuals who are OH SO WILLING to tell me how to grieve....how long to grieve.....and whether or not I should date......
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 22, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Dancing
Found out on Instagram that his family had a balloon release for his birthday. I wasn't invited. At first I was hurt. But now I'm grateful because I can let go. His family is a mess and I don't have to be a part of it anymore. I unfollowed the last ...
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 24, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Do any of you find yourselves constantly changing? I was married for more than four decades and I keep going through these periods where I’m like “okay, this is what I need in my life.” After a period of time, I realize that’s not the case ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 24, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by joantheloon
When I lost my husband of 22 years in 2002 to ALS, the thing I missed most was our time spent outdoors, we did everything together, Concerts, Canoeing, Camping, Hiking, Backpacking.! I'm still searching for that someone :(
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 25, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Why do I still do this to myself? I periodically feel the need to either open up the box of sympathy cards and funeral home register or go back to my FB timeline and review all the posts from the time he was diagnosed until the time he died. It’s...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 26, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Sheannutt
The ones you love?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 26, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by PADASOWI
What. Is happening? Guys, talk to me!
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 26, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Sharkymama
This seems like the perfect place to vent my feelings. I lost my husband seven years ago exactly 2 weeks after he drew his very first retirement check. He spent his whole life planning and saving and dreaming of retirement. We were married 34 ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 27, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by NoIdea
Why is it that at the funeral and other occasions you have listen everyone tell you how sorry they are for your loss and that if you need anything you just have get in touch. But when you ask for that help those same people squirm and try ...
3 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 30, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Dancing
He always brushed off my car. Always. It was so sweet. He usually made a big deal about it. That his woman doesn't have to do that kinda thing! Lol. So of course all this snow has me crying. I was able to hold my tears back as I brushed off my car ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 3, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Dancing
Sometimes I do.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 6, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Yet another metamorphosis for me. I belong to several local organizations. I haven't been to any meetings since my husband died in September of 2017. Every month I tell myself I need to start going back to those meetings and get back to my life. ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 13, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by MsHoliday
I have just had an epiphany. I was speaking on the phone with my daughter and she said she missed me a few times and then I said I missed her. But really, I don’t miss her at all. I love seeing her when she visits but I really don’t miss her, ...
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.

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