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Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
Dec 2, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by bryerwood
Being a man "of a certain age," I find I have a lot of questions about my identity and relationships in a culture so hyper focused on sex and sexuality that everything is seen through the lens of gender. I would like to find or form a group the ...
11 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 29, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by rsb97080
If “true love” really exists, this is part of it (and no, I’m not fat. Merely making a point.)
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Shared from Love & Relationships
Nov 27, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by JGal
Some interesting insights to relationships, love and intimacy.
9 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 22, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by DavidRooney
So how do you reconcile heavenly light shining down after really good sex..?? Enigma was playing and it was very weird
15 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 20, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by LuvLayne
Do any other people enjoy their favorite music playing while having sex? I really get turned on by it, especially songs by The Doors, Led Zeppelin, David Bowie and other rock bands. Maybe my history of loving to dance is entwined with sex ❤
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Real Intimacy
Nov 20, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Allamanda
maybe I should put this in 'Silly' -
5 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 18, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by FearlessFly
"Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love." :P
10 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 16, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by wonderandlisten
I am reading book that presents some of the best thinking I have seen on the subject of love and intimacy. It is The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt. Chapter 6 is especially illuminating. He makes the point that romantic love has two aspects,...
5 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 13, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Naftusja
I see intimacy as a derivative of three main components: intellectual connection, physical connection, and spiritual connection (not relating to religion in any aspects, but deeper understanding of a person's continuous and subconscious drivers). As ...
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Nov 12, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Grahame
An interesting list. I hadn’t read Lolita so I read it and watched the 1996 movie in the past week. Apparently there is disagreement over whether this is child pornography or great literature. It is erotic and intimate but I found the language ...
5 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 12, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by fattafinga
Hello, I am a Dom who engages in primarily BDSM relationships. I would like to open a discussion on the stigma associated with the life which seems to imply that BDSM relationships are all about sex and not romantic or intimate. In my experience ...
11 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 11, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Kempster45
Intimacy, there are degrees of intimacy I guess. Sexual intimacy is what comes to mind immediately but even sexual intimacy would be a matter of degree. You could say intimacy is subject to growth, guess that's obvious, as a common goal between two ...
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Real Intimacy
Nov 10, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by bryerwood
What intimacy Isn’t Intimacy doesn’t require commitment. This fundamental confusion comes from our thoroughly messed up beliefs about sex, sexuality and relationships. We can’t deal with sex as, well, SEX, we have to make up all kinds of ...
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Real Intimacy
Nov 10, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by 69ArizonaJerry
Intimacy is so individual that no one can describe it in one page. So I do not worry. I will start with sex and see here it will lead. I have a quite descriptive page and so far no one responded with a suggestion of further action, questions, leading...
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Nov 10, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by DavidDuhon
So, intimacy is in my mind a culturally shaped concept, and western culture is Christian culture--I think we could all be happier and have better relationships if we open up as to what we think is innately us and what is cultural overlay. When ...
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Real Intimacy
Nov 9, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by truthsayer
Many years ago i dated a guy who defined intimacy as having sex. i suspect he's not the only guy who thinks this.
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Shared from Love & Relationships
Nov 9, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by WonderNYC
For me, intimacy has always been connected with commitment. Lately I've been pondering what it means to make and keep a commitment to someone for the long term, or even for life. There are layers of questions and uncertainties I've encountered, but ...
14 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 7, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Soarfeet
Whattayathink?! ... curious to hear from the Intimacy & Relationship people to help me "see the forest" because i might be too deep in the trees... of a new relationship with a very well-kept, polished 60ish newly divorced man. Since we started ...
20 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 6, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Alteridade
After years of disappointment with (otherwise wonderful) women who turned out to be religious, I’d love to meet someone who shares my secular outlook. It’d also be great if she were multilingual and at least somewhat dark skinned & full figured. ...
10 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 1, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by lost
How to get over the trust factor with people i last my wife quite a while ago to cancer it took me a while before o got back into the dating so far over last 10 years i have only been dating with 2 different girls for a couple of year for both ...
11 comments
Real Intimacy
Nov 1, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by jguroy
Hi just joined and not sure what to do next can be introverted but once i get to know people i chat and get used to them
9 comments
Real Intimacy
Oct 27, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Allamanda
This is very sobering, and very accurate for a lot of women, and for some men too - most of whom don't get help.
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Real Intimacy
Oct 22, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Listener59
Feeling like spreading a little positivity tonight. I'm curious to know what things are said about you by other people that make you happy, proud, excited, etc. If you aren't sure what the people in your life say about you, please share something ...
21 comments
Real Intimacy
Oct 22, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by UrsiMajor
Online dating tips in case your dating accountability teams are unavailable.
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Real Intimacy
Oct 19, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Justjoni
Do any here have experience with tantric sex? Apparently the focus is on connecting, and really enhancing feelings of intimacy and oneness. I’m intrigued with its appropriateness for seniors, as the focus is not on the usual parts. This blog says ...
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Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

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Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

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