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A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
Jun 3, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by cmontes
In surveying the questions i notice that women are mostly asking/posting about intimacy of emotion and attachment while men seem to mostly be writing about sex. Do men equate intimacy only to sex? I guess im asking this question to the gentlemen in ...
15 comments
Real Intimacy
May 31, 2018May 2018

Posted by Cherie44
Here’s my question, and I k I already know the answer; I’ll let calmer heads prevail. When I joined I explained how I caught my husband in an online relationship, and karma being what it is, she turned out to be a catfish. It was like a freaking...
11 comments
Real Intimacy
May 30, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
although it's still somewhat taboo ,studies show many people meet their spouses at work. Are office romances a positive or negative thing. Personally I have very mixed feelings.
12 comments
Real Intimacy
May 30, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you? As a liberal I just don't trust conservatives. I don't k I would ever be able to make a relationship work with someone who is a trump supporting conservative, it doesn't ...
28 comments
Real Intimacy
May 29, 2018May 2018

Posted by CraeftSmith
My wife has decided that we should live apart, and begin divorce proceedings. The problem? We can't afford to establish a new household, so we are forced to live awkwardly in the same house. Has anyone else been in this situation? Does anyone have ...
23 comments
Real Intimacy
May 27, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
When you're in a relationship what makes you feel loved? For some it's communication ,others enjoy gifts/favors ,some need only physical expression.
3 comments
Real Intimacy
May 27, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this. She's the mother of four daughters, when her girls reach school age she takes them in for a gynecological examination and birth control shot. It doesn't matter ...
14 comments
Real Intimacy
May 25, 2018May 2018

Posted by NormCastle
I have often said, on various sites, cheating is not the sex, but the lie. As a young bisexual male, those many years ago, I had a relationship with one of my male friends for about three years before the subject of marriage with my girlfriend came ...
7 comments
Real Intimacy
May 23, 2018May 2018

Posted by Buttercup
What do you consider true romance? I like old fashioned wooing. There's a saying that seduction is getting someone to do what they secretly desire. At best, it feels selfish and goal oriented to me, if it's also dishonest it's just low. I don't ...
4 comments
Real Intimacy
May 22, 2018May 2018

Posted by Buttercup
It's not the when, it's the why. There was a recent discussion about if sex on the first date could lead to a good relationship.(hell yes!) With both my wives, we were both all in from the start. This is our romantic adventure, we were fucking like ...
9 comments
Real Intimacy
May 21, 2018May 2018

Posted by Theskeptic
I have a question for you ladies. I'm an older guy, 68, but I'm good condition. My spouse of 25 plus years is younger than me by 10. For the first 20 years she was responsive to my sexual needs. For the last 5 plus years she has become celibate....
10 comments
Real Intimacy
May 16, 2018May 2018

Posted by Lee-Timber
Toys? My wife and I like to use toys (mostly for her pleasure) and I thought I’d share one new item we got that’s really worth the price. It’s called a “womanizer”. Yes kind of a sexist name but it really works. She is already orgasmic ...
15 comments
Real Intimacy
May 13, 2018May 2018

Posted by Marcie1974
This cracked me up.
10 comments
Real Intimacy
May 13, 2018May 2018

Posted by Cherie44
My question is on forgiveness and learning to trust again. When I found out my husband was having online chats with a woman because of issues we were having (and I own my part!) and was able to see ALL messages, it really did destroy me and the ...
12 comments
Real Intimacy
May 10, 2018May 2018

Posted by AvvarElf
My bf & I have been together for 6 yrs almost 7, & we are very much in love. I'm demisexual; it's hard for me to grasp the concept of emotionless/non-intimate sex. This is not the case for my bf. I have been his only partner; he has never had a ...
5 comments
Real Intimacy
May 5, 2018May 2018

Posted by Jimmymac62
I've been in a passionless relationship for 5 yrs...haven't had sex in 3...shes not interested. What are anyones thoughts on passion on the down-low? :/
17 comments
Real Intimacy
May 4, 2018May 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
All relationships have ups and downs. When your relationship is on the skids where do you go for advice? Friends ? Family? the internet ? What works best for you and why
13 comments
Real Intimacy
May 4, 2018May 2018

Posted by UUNJ
I’m curious about whether and how people set age parameters for potential romantic partners. Do age differences matter to you, and if so, why?
31 comments
Real Intimacy
May 2, 2018May 2018

Posted by LenHazell53
My wife became disabled several years ago and sexual intimacy became too painful for her to participate in. She can have sexual intercourse but it is painful and unpleasant for her, and even her own orgasm causes her pain, She constantly asks me if ...
8 comments
Real Intimacy
May 1, 2018May 2018

Posted by Lee-Timber
Love to see the interactive nature of these discussions. Frank and honest. I’m in awe.
3 comments
Real Intimacy
Apr 30, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by brainyactress
Piggy-backing off of @thinkwithme’s and @Kojaksmom’s last posts: what about cyberlove and cyberintimacy going beyond sexting and masturbation? Can you fall in love with someone you’ve only known online? Can you really know them? A year ago, I ...
14 comments
Real Intimacy
Apr 29, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by thinkwithme
So...the title of the group is real intimacy but I see questions a lot about sex here. Do you think there is a difference between sex and intimacy, especially real intimacy? I know I do..
12 comments
Real Intimacy
Apr 29, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by MermaidSuzy888
As someone who is single after decades of marriage & relationships, I'm finding that it's just easier to have an arrangement with a close fried concerning sex, than to date. There's no BS, no games & everything is discussed beforehand concerning ...
16 comments
Real Intimacy
Apr 23, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Cant compare to a real physical exchange of affection ,however, sometimes that's not always possible. How many of you would be willing to engage in sexting or phone sex if you were in a distant relationship/ or any other reason.
27 comments
Real Intimacy
Apr 18, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Did having children change your relationship with your spouse or significant other? In what way? Did it enhance your relationship?
10 comments

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Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

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Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

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