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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 27, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Update: My dream vacation and rendezvous has been great...just great. I fell in love with the UK and maybe even with my lovely tour guide! Who knows what it means moving forward, but I don't care because I found a piece of the old me. The Ron who ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Gypsy494
Going to sound silly....maybe. But it is where I find myself so here it goes. Lost my hubby a yr Jan 14 . In our household was my kitty Belladonna my hubbys cat Mick and Doug and I. Mick quit eating when My hubby died....nursed him back - he had ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Della
Well, I sold our home. I transfer the deed on the 4th. The place is decrepit. I kind of feel bad for the buyer. He got a good price. I am sure he has no idea the work that is going to have to go into this house. I hope he is able to get a good profit...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Pretty good article -- also applies to widowers.
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Shared from Religion & Spirituality
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by freeofgod
When you lose your parents you lose your past. When you lose your spouse you lose your present. When you lose a child you lose your future. Metaphorically speaking.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 29, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Dancing
7 days until the one year mark. I've hit all the other firsts. Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays. I am having a hard time with this last first. Today last year he was still alive. He was in my arms. I was kissing him and he was kissing me. I miss ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 29, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by alatlas
WRONG! "Losing" is just physical! You have pictures & more important memories. If they had children you have those children. You have the opportunity to use "their" words or and their manorisms that you can model. In your minds eye, your "lost" ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 29, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by alon
She died from Pancreatic Cancer in 1989 and I miss and think of her often.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 30, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by MsHoliday
And, I am missing him: ALL I SEE IS YOU I remember us, the way we used to be, I'd hold you in my arms, your smile so sweet to me, ...All I see is you, I dream only of your love, and happiness in life, I try not to think of you, but when I close ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 2, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by freeofgod
Grief never leaves us. It shrinks from a great, consuming, pit, to something smaller, more manageable over time. A scar remains. But grief never leaves us. Author Unknown
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 4, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Update 2: My British tour guide is coming to America end of May! A week in DC and a week at My place in VA, my head is about to explode!!! Loss is of course a big challenge, but I'm doing my best to enjoy this and be in the moment! I still miss ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 5, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Dancing
The build up to today was worse than the day itself. Today felt like yesterday. Not much different except that everyone is posting on social media. Below is my social media post. Today my kids and I had a special dessert and smores by a campfire. And...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 7, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Bobsuruncle
After my wife died it got me thinking about my own death. I made a will and let some people know where it's at. Not hidden. Made sure include/mention some that totally abandoned me or tried to ruin my life. People generally rush in and take ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 7, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Redheadedgammy
This month, April, is the month last year that I planned the last fishing trip that Richard and I would go on. Our anniversary is April 22nd. As the day gets closer I find that my emotions are raw thinking about how this would have been our 13th ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 10, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Sheannutt
Life is so very precious?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 12, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Sheannutt
I believe they are🤗
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 13, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by MojoDave
We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it ?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 17, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Gypsy494
Yesterday was my birthday. AND Out of the blue I had a crying upset over nothing and everything day. What a damn baby. :( You see I love my birthday.... not gifts per se but the attention.... cards and talking to my loved ones. Always have been that...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 22, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Today is my anniversary. Richard and I had 15 wonderful years together. We had such a nice time last year for our anniversary. We went fishing, something he loved to do, and stayed the weekend down by the ocean. Little did I know it would be our ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 27, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Hi Folks, I've noticed lots of angnst with on line dating, even just on line chatting. I for one feel much better getting out and about meeting people on dog walks, coffee shops, pubs etc. I also tend to get lazy just being on the sofa typing. ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 14, 2019May 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
I recently brought my new significant other out the closet (I've been dating him for three months) and introduced him to some family members. I also made it Facebook official where I received something like 175 likes and about 50 nice comments. ...
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Shared from General & Hellos
May 15, 2019May 2019

Posted by Huskygirl4ever
Night time is still the hardest I should be used to it by now cuz it's going to be six years this August but I'm not I honestly hate waking up alone I remember all the nights where I would roll over and just curl up next to Norm cuz I was cold or I ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 15, 2019May 2019

Posted by Kojaksmom
Sometimes inspiration comes from strange sources. I recently watched a Netflix series called dead to me. It's a story about a woman who becomes a widow and finds her husband had a very dark side, and was unfaithful to her. Not every widow (er) had a...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 18, 2019May 2019

Posted by Sheannutt
In Memory.....
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 20, 2019May 2019

Posted by Huskygirl4ever
This is exactly how I felt for the last 6 years there is no more home Norm was my home my everything and getting through this life is so hard without him
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.
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