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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 26, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
I've had something gnawing at me for a couple of days and I feel like I need advice or something. I've been seeing a gentleman for several weeks. Last weekend he said the following to me, although I'm paraphrasing I'm sure: “I know two things ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Gypsy494
Going to sound silly....maybe. But it is where I find myself so here it goes. Lost my hubby a yr Jan 14 . In our household was my kitty Belladonna my hubbys cat Mick and Doug and I. Mick quit eating when My hubby died....nursed him back - he had ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Della
Well, I sold our home. I transfer the deed on the 4th. The place is decrepit. I kind of feel bad for the buyer. He got a good price. I am sure he has no idea the work that is going to have to go into this house. I hope he is able to get a good profit...
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Shared from Religion & Spirituality
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by freeofgod
When you lose your parents you lose your past. When you lose your spouse you lose your present. When you lose a child you lose your future. Metaphorically speaking.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 17, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Gypsy494
Yesterday was my birthday. AND Out of the blue I had a crying upset over nothing and everything day. What a damn baby. :( You see I love my birthday.... not gifts per se but the attention.... cards and talking to my loved ones. Always have been that...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 14, 2019May 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
I recently brought my new significant other out the closet (I've been dating him for three months) and introduced him to some family members. I also made it Facebook official where I received something like 175 likes and about 50 nice comments. ...
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Shared from General & Hellos
May 15, 2019May 2019

Posted by Huskygirl4ever
Night time is still the hardest I should be used to it by now cuz it's going to be six years this August but I'm not I honestly hate waking up alone I remember all the nights where I would roll over and just curl up next to Norm cuz I was cold or I ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 15, 2019May 2019

Posted by Kojaksmom
Sometimes inspiration comes from strange sources. I recently watched a Netflix series called dead to me. It's a story about a woman who becomes a widow and finds her husband had a very dark side, and was unfaithful to her. Not every widow (er) had a...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 9, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Huskygirl4ever
Know a lot of people couldn't handle what I walked through what any of us in here have walked through so unless you know what we're going through keep your mouths shut this is the way I look at it
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 22, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Today is the day one year ago that I lost my darling Richard. It's been a tough year to get through but I've made it in spite of a few setbacks. I want to thank this group for all the wonderful support and empathy that I found here at a very sad ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 30, 2018May 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
This is so true for me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 9, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Today and everyday.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 13, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by RoseyRose
My husband of 36 years died on August 17th of 2017. Laryngeal cancer. It was a fucking nightmare. His suffering was beyond description. I took care of him. Yes I had hospice visiting, but I took care of him. Every medication, injections, feeding, ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 13, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
As the years go by.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 23, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by RoseyRose
I have always been of the mind that a piece of paper does not a marriage make. We melted the summer we started as a couple. Body and soul. Somehow that event however chemically inspired was foretelling of the rest of our lives. Before we even knew...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 10, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
It's like living two lives?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 16, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Death changes everything.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 25, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Velvetnsatin
Last post from him - "I love you, anyway. I'm going to bed. G'night." We were in a fight over two things. Him not going to the docs and him stopping smoking many times and my having lost faith over it going to work this time. He was my best friend...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 10, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by matthew1954
Pretty much spot on: "The Day I’ll Finally Stop Grieving"
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 22, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by MsHoliday
I am eight years a widow and and I am still incredibly sad when I think of my beloved. Memories don’t comfort me, like everyone said they would. Warning this poem maybe a trigger. I Heard Your Voice In The Wind Today I heard your voice in ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 11, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by ProudMary
Now that's what I'm talking about.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 11, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
Next A Kim memory revisited: Years ago, before I met Kim, I bought a cool bomber jacket in NY. With a thick sweater, it filled me out nicely. I went to a club one night and it was stolen off a chair. A year or two later, I met this petite lady with ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 12, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Rose2U
For the ladies. This gives us hope . Men just reverse it. I know it can happen.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 17, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Wangobango3
Last week would have been my 45th wedding anniversary. Last Wed. My girlfriend was diagnosed with cancer of the trachea. Next week will be the one year anniversary of my wife's death. I have become uncomfortably numb.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 17, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
So...I seem to have these odd forgetful moments. Let me explain; when I'm out and about, perhaps live music, or brews with friends, when coming home, I'm like...Oh I can't wait to tell Kim about this! Then I realize I can't, she's gone. It's a ...
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.

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