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Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Real Intimacy
Jun 14, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Ren88
Don't you just hate when you meet someone who is initially perfect as far as fitting your criteria, and then you find out they're allergic to your favorite pets and will be moving away forever in a year, but you keep seeing them anyway, because a ...
6 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 17, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Buttercup
What complaint about you do you keep hearing? I'm impulsive, random, unpredictable, etc. My first two SOs were type A super geniuses (Ivy league families) and my "lack of focus" was a constant source of frustration for them. My wife has a Zen, bend ...
9 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 17, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by UUNJ
Has anyone seen the film Lars and the Real Girl? It is about a guy who turns to a life-sized doll to help him learn how to relate to people (not sexually). It’s charming. I wonder what qualities in others (people, not dolls or pets) you find ...
11 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 17, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by tartaruchus77
I met a woman. This is an oddity as I've been mentally and emotionally stunted for the last 2 years since my ex and I split. I met her at the hospital... In recovery... After my mom had surgery. She was the recovery nurse and we sat for 2 hours while...
7 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 18, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
I've noticed through conversations that some people develope shallow reasons, based on past relationship failures, to not date others. Does your past negative experiences cause you to immediately dismiss someone due to their name, profession, ...
18 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 19, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Wrytyr
I have a question regarding something I have noticed on some ads that I want to ask about out of curiosity and not judgement. I have noticed about a third of profiles of women who say that they are here to meet men &/or but when I look at the things...
17 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 21, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by UUNJ
Intimate friends know each other’s secrets.
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Real Intimacy
Jun 21, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by CraeftSmith
So, a little help here? I have always been the kind of person who waits by the phone, while the other person is off living their life. I am emotionally supportive, but don't know how to be supported. What are some simple things I can do to stop being...
11 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 22, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by ReasonRising
I have a theory that maximum intimacy between two people requires both people to have the same "approach" to problem-solving. e.g., in the Meyers Briggs model, some people are conceptual thinkers, some are conceptual feelers, some are concrete ...
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 24, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by MeagLorena
I believe intimacy starts with the mind. It’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take down all the ...
14 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 26, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by OpposingOpposum
A friend of mine likes to point out that perfect partners don't exist. No one is ever going to tick all the little boxes on your wishlist. He's entirely correct, of course. g is I k I must be a perfectionist. I'm aware my standards are going ...
11 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 26, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by mkeaman
To be intimate - is to listen - not only for things spoken, but for all the nuances that occur. Seeing is important too - but this one is "for listening!"
3 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 26, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by bleurowz
What is this? Does it make sense? If you are "friends with benefits," you get together and have sex, right? So if you’ve fooled around, and then you don’t, but you still talk, text, and email each other in sexy ways, what are you? Someone ...
6 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 27, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by tryingcake
This is nothing new. And anyone that had at least psych 101 should have studied this. I just thought this is worth pondering. Your thoughts on the content?
10 comments
Real Intimacy
Jun 29, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Nardi
I feel ridiculous at times, through jealousy, when my partner tells me how well she gets on with men at work. I don't dare say anything for the fear of coming across as possessive and jealous and I certainly do not want to be the controlling type. So...
8 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 2, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Just for fun. Modern dating lingo, how many terms do you know? I'll start! Ghosting- when someone simply falls off the face of the Earth after they've established a relationship with you. Breadcrumbing- the act of keeping someone just interested in ...
6 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 4, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by HippieChick58
Thoughts on relationships
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Shared from Love & Relationships
Jul 4, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by ProudMary
Yesterday someone posed a question along the lines of “what would your ideal profile say?” Many of the responses were humorous. I wonder what an honest profile would look like. For example, I think most of the women on here are strong and ...
17 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 5, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
The online dating world is very hard. One of the biggest pitfalls in online dating is number of married men and women who are posing a singles. What advice do you have, and what red flags do you watch out for that may indicate the person you're ...
16 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 8, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by BJANINE
I found this relevant, to this group. How can we really have true, honest intimacy if there are parts of us still operating from a place of shame? I think most people, at our core, desire to be loved, without conditions. How can we hope it from ...
10 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 10, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by UUNJ
This graphic came across my Instagram feed, and it’s an impressively simple way to understand the cycle of abuse in relationships. It’s important to recognize it in our own relations and in our friends’ and loved ones’ lives so we can offer ...
3 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 10, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by BJANINE
Food for thought...
6 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 10, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Partyhawk
Patience is our friend
3 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 12, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by HippieChick58
This is what I want
7 comments
Real Intimacy
Jul 13, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by MissKathleen
I want that too
5 comments

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Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

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Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

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