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Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Jul 5, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Radu
What are the pros and cons of having children, for you?
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Jul 8, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Helios
Heieee there Am new and please to joint this forum. Anticipate your love and sharing
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Jul 9, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Conversational
I think intimacy is over and under rated. For one, when you are a you need to experience respect, intimacy, love and trust in order to learn how it works, how it looks and feels like and what it does for you, gives you a sense of self respect, ...
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Jul 10, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Radu
Which pet names have you been called in relationships that you liked, and which did you dislike? Likewise, which pet names do you enjoy calling your partner(s)? If none, how do you refer to them, by their name? Do you have affectionate verbal ...
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Jul 10, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Radu
Do you enjoy the courting process, or would you rather skip it and go straight to a relationship, if you could?
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Jul 11, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Conversational
I am female, in my mid-late 50's, Asian, enjoy deep conversations and getting to know people. I am very inquisitive and genuinely interested in getting to know who someone is so I ask a lot of questions in order to get to know and understand them. ...
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Jul 13, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by MarcusAaronius
Emotional Cheating
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Jul 17, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Cyklone
I'm not a fan of the idea of pathologising experience. Ie. They've got baggage; they're wounded etc. I don't think experience is something you "heal" from. It's something you accomodate into your life, something you learn from, something you are ...
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Jul 18, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Joebenson017
True intimacy is a human constant. People of all types find it equally hard to achieve, equally precious to hold. Age, education, social status, make little difference here; even genius does not presuppose the talent to reveal one’s self ...
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Jul 20, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Joebenson017
Jason once told me that eye contact is the most intimacy two people can have — forget sex — because the optic nerve is technically an extension of the brain, and when two people look into each other’s eyes, it’s brain-to-brain.
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Jul 21, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by PandaCat
So my late husband used to tell me I really wanted to be with a woman because I want to talk and he didn’t want to talk. He also never cried. Ever. Not once that I saw at least. I tried to talk to him about his feelings. He would say “why? It’s...
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Jul 21, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Joebenson017
Many people are desperate to find a soul mate, someone who responds to their deep image of love and intimacy. They go to great lengths to meet people, and they spend considerable time feeling achingly deprived of the joys of intimacy they imagine. ...
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Jul 24, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Radu
What's so bad about a clingy girlfriend? Isn't it good that she wants to always be around you? Where does the discomfort come from? My best relationship was with a girl so clingy, my mother named her "the tick". And I loved it! Why do people ...
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Jul 24, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Deb57
Hi. I just joined this group. I'm here because, after four marriages and divorces, it's pretty clear that I have a problem acknowledging red flags and making the distinction between decent men and dirt bags. The last marriage was the most horrific ...
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Jul 26, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by Joebenson017
True intimacy is a human constant. People of all types find it equally hard to achieve, equally precious to hold. Age, education, social status, make little difference here; even genius does not presuppose the talent to reveal one’s self ...
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Real Intimacy
Aug 6, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Cast1es
Was chatting with a gentleman , who chose to brag about the size of his package . He commented , that a lady he had been with claimed he was so big , that it hurt her , and she cried when they had sex . Is this common ? Have others had size ...
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Aug 9, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by PandaCat
In the way of attachment styles, have any of you secure/insecure crossovers been in a good relationship with an avoidant personality? If so, what do you think helps your communication without being smothering? I was reading that secure people are ...
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Aug 9, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by EyesThatSmile
I wish more men appreciated lacy sexy lingerie. Most want to cut to the chase and get naked. Your thoughts?
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Aug 10, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by RobertFoley
What is Intimacy? I honestly don't know what it is.. or put another way, I really don't think I've ever experienced it in my life. Today I am one month five days from almost dieing from congestive heart failure. While I'm on the mend now and seeing ...
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Aug 16, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by EyesThatSmile
POLLHow many times have you felt like you were in love? (Please don’t respond with statements about how love is different for everyone or that we really don’t know what love is.). At 57 I can say I have been in love 4 times (and also lived with a ...
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Aug 16, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by MarkWD
So I’m backing off of posting much more here. This group and certainly ones unrelated to religion/atheism have mostly been fine. But the whole idea of seeking out a community where people are more like me on that continuum seems like a mistake to...
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Aug 21, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Green_Soldier71
HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH AND HOW SOON IS TOO SOON? I'm feeling a bit 'naked' right now and would like a listening ear and maybe some advice for the future. I am 48 (will be 49 soon), separated, and recently started chatting with a 51 year old divorced ...
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Aug 24, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by MrsAlwaysRight
ADVICE: I have been seeing a guy for about a year now. Started off with FWB, but we grew closer over the year and both of us developed feelings. He has told me he loves me, but sometimes I am uncertain of our union. He's not a texter, so we don't ...
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Aug 26, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by resserts
Here's a summary version of what Dan Savage has been saying for years about building and maintaining a strong relationship.
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Aug 29, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by SimplyJaneen
So I've been divorced now for almost 21 months. My ex left for South Korea shortly after getting the divorce papers and everything was finalizee after he left. He's still over there. Here it's me and my two girls. I have a 10 year old and a 14 year ...
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Posted by UnitySomeday my princess will appear before me. ❤️

Posted by AtheistPeace666Hello I'm a single Canuck looking for my special lady Canuck.

Posted by KhaCRYou ever feel like you found the perfect sexual partner then he turns out to be a complete 💩bag and you can’t find the satisfaction in other encounters?

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by EntheogenFanI have a story to tell.

Posted by KateOahuYes, I agree that the reverse is also true.

Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

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