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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Posts Tagged "cancer" By Redheadedgammy (35) Posts by members only

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Feb 7Feb 7

Posted by Jaylo64
Hi ! I'm Jay from South Texas ! I lost my wife to cancer last May and had a horrible holiday season being lonely and I don't like going to bars ,but I do drink Tequila (and only Tequila) and smoke a bit of the green , I'm a rock hound , and I like to...
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Feb 21, 2023Feb 2023

Posted by TXLerins
“I’m wounded; it will never really heal.” - Frodo Baggins On the day of the cancer diagnosis she apologized to me for ruining my birthday. Each year I relive that interaction. It’s remarkable how the pain from that emotional wound ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 7, 2021Feb 2021

Posted by Happycanuck
New to this group , but have been on Agnostic for a bit. My wife Pat passed away on Dec. 23. She complained about not feeling well after supper. I asked if she wanted to go to Emerg. She said no. I mentioned this a few times- Emerg./Ambulance-nope. ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 6, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Sonja44
The love of my life passed away last May after battling cancer for 3 tough years. We were together for 31 years. This is the club no one want to be in. Grief sucks. Im just now starting to feel less like ive lost a vital organ. Condolences and ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 10, 2020Jun 2020

Posted by scottpresnall
I never enjoyed being alone before marrying my first wife, with whom I spent 20 great years. I didn’t enjoy being alone after she died of breast cancer, so I remarried at 43. My second wife, also of twenty years, died five weeks ago, also from ...
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Apr 17, 2020Apr 2020

Posted by MattJKeller
Hey All! I'm a 42 year old widower. My wife, Unity, died on March 18th, 2019, after nearly 5 years of fighting colo-rectal cancer. We were married for 19 years, and together for 20. Frankly, navigating the single world just sucks.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 15, 2020Mar 2020

Posted by AncientNight
45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend. I miss her. It's been almost 3 years since she lost her battle with cancer. Together, we went through a lot. Financial troubles. Raising two ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 10, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by Keech
Maybe this is the wrong group, but I have 2 losses to talk about. First, is my wife. I was married for 37 yrs, and I did love her. She started cheating and I knew it. She lied and denied. Finally, she left. And admitted she was cheating because we ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 31, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Mythbuster
When I joined this site I was married with my wife in hospice. My wife, Dawn, died just before midnight, 11:46pm Sunday July 28. She died with her head resting in my hands. Two of her close running friends stayed by her side as well. This was one of ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 29, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by alon
She died from Pancreatic Cancer in 1989 and I miss and think of her often.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 3, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Marionville
I don’t post here very often, although do respond and try to support others when they do so. All of us, in this group, have been bereaved at some time, by losing either a spouse, partner or close relative or friend. The grief we suffer is unique...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 21, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by ArthurK
It has been almost 4 years since cancer took my wife of 43 1/2 years. I think about her every day. And although the pain has subsided a bit it is still there. And the lingering question - why. But since I still live I must go on. The adjustment, as ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 11, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by NoIdea
I lost my wife of 23 years to pancreatic cancer on Nov 1st 2018. The grieving process has been 'interesting'. I have realised that I started to grieve shortly after her diagnosis 2 years ago. Being knowledgeable about cancer, it's treatment and ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 20, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by RavenCT
If you guys are cool with it - I'm going to join just to keep an eye out for scammers. This seems to be one of the groups they target when they get smarter (ie when they get booted a time or two from the site and learn how to navigate around a bit ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 11, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sorcha
My ex husband died last night from a long fight with cancer. I knew he was sick but I had no idea it was stage 4 when they found it years ago. He wanted me to know he was sick and told mutual friends. I got an email from his sister Saturday saying...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 17, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Kojaksmom
Hello everyone! I lost my husband to cancer 5 years ago and im still a mess. I don't have any close friends who are in my situation. I never realized, or even thought of, the far ranging effects of losing a loved one would have.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 11, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Rose2U
November is pancreatic cancer awareness month. Lost my hubby to this monster. Wear purple on yhe 15th to show support.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 29, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by RidingAlone
I met Cheryl on Halloween night, 1981. We were married the following March, on Friday 13th. She succumed to cancer Dec 2016, so this will be my second Halloween without her since 81 and our 3 year old great grandson still asks after her. Sorry to be ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 17, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Wangobango3
Last week would have been my 45th wedding anniversary. Last Wed. My girlfriend was diagnosed with cancer of the trachea. Next week will be the one year anniversary of my wife's death. I have become uncomfortably numb.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 8, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by psycheworks
What are the odds on this happening? I met a great guy at a festival recently and really clicked with him, we've arranged to go out to a couple gigs. His behavior was a bit off though and I couldn't put my finger on what it was, he was very keen to ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 28, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by mikebeed
I've avoided this group for awhile. I lost my significant other 3 years ago to cancer. It was a year and a half before I went out on a date. I felt guilty, like I was cheating on her . I don't want to relive the sadness on a daily basis, but I would ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 7, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Fallout
My partner didn't die but it felt like it. I was married 20+ happy years to my ex who has been physically disabled since birth. Unfortunately about 10 years ago she developed estrogen receptor positive breast cancer I had found the lump one night and...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 6, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by matthew1954
Willie hits the nail on the head
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 15, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
A very sad moment my best friend for many years just lost her husband yesterday to cancer???
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 13, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by RoseyRose
My husband of 36 years died on August 17th of 2017. Laryngeal cancer. It was a fucking nightmare. His suffering was beyond description. I took care of him. Yes I had hospice visiting, but I took care of him. Every medication, injections, feeding, ...
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.
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