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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

Most Commented Posts By Redheadedgammy (35) (Page 5 / 18) Posts by members only

Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 17, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Today I went to see my nutritionist/counselor and she tells me I am not taking care of myself so well right now. I'm not eating correctly, nor drinking enough water, nor getting enough exercise. I know this is true. I haven't been taking very good...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 19, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Ron_R
So...since July, I've had an up and down journey with a local lady. She is foreign/had obstacles, but has a real live life to the fullest attitude! Be your best, look your best, explore etc, etc. Me? Coming off the loss of my wife is still a ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 20, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Gypsy494
I am trying to keep busy even more so than usual.BUT Jan 14 ( Lost my love last Jan 14) is fast approaching. Im in a new town / state feeling lost , scared, alone and even more heartbroken. Any ideas? How do you cope on that terrible anniversary?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 11, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by MsHoliday
This is one of my favorite poems and one that resonates with me these days.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 12, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Rose2U
As a mom and a widow. We want to be happy and also want our kids to be.How did you handle telling your child you are dating? If they say one thing but act another. My son is 20 and met the new man in my life last night. I was nervous. I know it's ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 22, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Dancing
Found out on Instagram that his family had a balloon release for his birthday. I wasn't invited. At first I was hurt. But now I'm grateful because I can let go. His family is a mess and I don't have to be a part of it anymore. I unfollowed the last ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 6, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Yet another metamorphosis for me. I belong to several local organizations. I haven't been to any meetings since my husband died in September of 2017. Every month I tell myself I need to start going back to those meetings and get back to my life. ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 4, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Not a good day today. Grief just seems to come out of nowhere sometimes and knock me right on my ass. This was taken the day he came home from the hospital for the last time. Our dogs were so happy to see him.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 4, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Dancing
Today my daughter comes to me crying because she misses Dad. All I can do is cry with her and we talk some. After she feels better, she runs off to play. And I break down.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 14, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Hey everybody. Anyone see After Life...or The After Life starring the British (the Office) comic Ricky Gervais? If so, what did you think?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Gypsy494
Going to sound silly....maybe. But it is where I find myself so here it goes. Lost my hubby a yr Jan 14 . In our household was my kitty Belladonna my hubbys cat Mick and Doug and I. Mick quit eating when My hubby died....nursed him back - he had ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 29, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Dancing
7 days until the one year mark. I've hit all the other firsts. Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays. I am having a hard time with this last first. Today last year he was still alive. He was in my arms. I was kissing him and he was kissing me. I miss ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 2, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by freeofgod
Grief never leaves us. It shrinks from a great, consuming, pit, to something smaller, more manageable over time. A scar remains. But grief never leaves us. Author Unknown
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 5, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Dancing
The build up to today was worse than the day itself. Today felt like yesterday. Not much different except that everyone is posting on social media. Below is my social media post. Today my kids and I had a special dessert and smores by a campfire. And...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 7, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Redheadedgammy
This month, April, is the month last year that I planned the last fishing trip that Richard and I would go on. Our anniversary is April 22nd. As the day gets closer I find that my emotions are raw thinking about how this would have been our 13th ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 22, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Today is the day one year ago that I lost my darling Richard. It's been a tough year to get through but I've made it in spite of a few setbacks. I want to thank this group for all the wonderful support and empathy that I found here at a very sad ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 6, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Wildgreens
When I still had Bear, he was my safety net and security. He was my best friend and strength. I never knew what burdens were, I never knew what baggage was. I never knew what worries were. He kept me safe in every way. I miss that.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 6, 2018May 2018

Posted by Clare
I knew this group was here, but I have been avoiding it, my wife died only 5 months ago 12-14-17, and I have been trying to move on, and sometimes I feel like I have succeeded, and then there are times that I feel like I am failing and still hurt ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 2, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Celestia
Due to no effort of my own, i have been made moderator of the group. Apparently I am the senior member. I don't normally agree to moderating, but in this instance i want to. I will be monitoring this group for trolls and assholes. Due to the ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 2, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
After almost 13 years this still pertains to me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Rose2U
How would you feel about just saying their name and the date of passing? Don 1/15/17 My husband. Luv you always and forever!!
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 16, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Death changes everything.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 11, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Rose2U
This says allot!
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 7, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by 1986a
Been 7 years and got a job to not be around the house months at a time. Think it may be time to stay home and face things
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 12, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by albu
As you are aware, this is somewhat difficult. On April 15, 2018 it will be two years since my wife of 54 years has died. Time has helped but not that much. Life with her, as I knew it no longer exists. I still have a problem "fitting in" and I ...
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.

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