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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

Most Commented Posts By Redheadedgammy (35) (Page 4 / 18) Posts by members only

Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 18, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Annaise
Is loosing someone to a breakup the same as loosing someone to death? I have had both experiences. Both have been painful, and a reason to grieve for me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 25, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Dancing
It's my Anniversary today. My 1st without him. This is what I posted on Facebook. Its been hard counting down the days to today. I was trying not to but every time I saw the calendar, I would look to see how far away today was.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 26, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Hazydays
Last night was my last night sleeping alone in my own bed. Today my boyfriend flies in and tomorrow we begin to pack up the moving truck with all my belongings and I head to his state which is 1,555 miles away. A new home in a new town and a new ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 28, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by mikebeed
I've avoided this group for awhile. I lost my significant other 3 years ago to cancer. It was a year and a half before I went out on a date. I felt guilty, like I was cheating on her . I don't want to relive the sadness on a daily basis, but I would ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 9, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by ProudMary
How is it possible to love and miss someone so much that it hurts and at the same time love someone new? I'm absolutely heartbroken this morning and at the same time I can't wait until Saturday because I have a date. Feels like there's a hurricane ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 15, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
Hey folks...Thanksgiving is coming up. My Kim really loved Thanksgiving. We had a family tradition of watching the parade with brie and homemade cranberry sauce, then the dog show...then the Lord of the Rings movies! I miss this greatly. Anyhow, ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 14, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Huskygirl4ever
Today is probably one of the hardest days it's Norms birthday and he would be 62 years old damn I just miss him
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 24, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Everpresentdog
Now here's the best part of this site! YEP I'm part of the Club Nobody Wants to Join and have been for almost 12 years. Really hating it lately, a lot.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 29, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Panurge
My wife passed four days before my birthday this past October, and I wonder if I will ever have a happy birthday again. I hope so. I think I can make it there.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 15, 2020Mar 2020

Posted by AncientNight
45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend. I miss her. It's been almost 3 years since she lost her battle with cancer. Together, we went through a lot. Financial troubles. Raising two ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 1, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by MsHoliday
Ten years ago today my life changed in a way I could have never imagined. Today I remember my beloved, Karl Albert Wright, he was my everything through those thirty-eight years and one month. Through his feminist love, I pushed the envelope, I ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 6, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Sonja44
The love of my life passed away last May after battling cancer for 3 tough years. We were together for 31 years. This is the club no one want to be in. Grief sucks. Im just now starting to feel less like ive lost a vital organ. Condolences and ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 22, 2021May 2021

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Please welcome our newest member Mannan to the group. Please make a post when you’re ready and tell us about yourself.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 27, 2021Sep 2021

Posted by RoseyRose
Today is the anniversary of my husbands birth. He's been gone over four years. I make sure to acknowledge this day because he was all of my life for 40 years. I'm no longer soul-shattered-desperate-broken. I miss him, he was my best friend and we...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 16, 2021Oct 2021

Posted by Betty
Three months and it feels like yesterday. I'm so lost, I can't see tomorrow. Sometimes I see him from the corner of my eye and my heart starts pounding, then the reality hits and I feel like I'm dying. The sadness is overwhelming, I miss him so ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 7, 2022Mar 2022

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Please welcome Aisha 1998 to the group.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 11, 2022Apr 2022

Posted by Betty
My birthday is coming up in a few days and I can feel the dread creeping up on me. He always made me feel like the most important person in the world to him. From the moment I woke up he showered me with attention, from the birthday card on my ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 17, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by WalkingPencil
Hi all, sorry I'm nervous about this. My name is Steve, I'm 49 and just over nine years ago I lost the love of my life, my sweet little Princess, Sam. She was just 31. We were together for nine wonderful years; in fact, come August 2nd we will have ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 14, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Sonja44
My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 30, 2020Nov 2020

Posted by Doraz
Hey old friends. I am back on the site. Though I doubt I'll be back in the same capacity as before. How has this crazy times been for everyone? It's been tough for me. With less social interactions, there are less distractions from my grief. I do ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 7, 2021Feb 2021

Posted by Happycanuck
New to this group , but have been on Agnostic for a bit. My wife Pat passed away on Dec. 23. She complained about not feeling well after supper. I asked if she wanted to go to Emerg. She said no. I mentioned this a few times- Emerg./Ambulance-nope. ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 28, 2021Feb 2021

Posted by RussRAB
Tomorrow March 1 will be a month since my wife died. We had been separated since last March because of COVID although we talked on the phone several times a day and we did coordinate meals since she hated the hospital food. The staff was very good to...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 24, 2022Apr 2022

Posted by Betty
So true. You Don’t Just Lose Someone Once. You don’t just lose someone once. You lose them when you close your eyes at night. And as you open them each morning. You lose them throughout the day. An unused coffee cup. An empty chair. A pair of ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 17, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by bookofmorons
Wondering how people feel about this? For me it pretty much sums things up but sad we don't realize it until its too late. Thoughts?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 2, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by mikebeed
Virginia passed 3 years ago. Since then, weird things have happened. I had a party this summer with our old friends. Out of nowhere Virginia's daughter showed up. A lady in Walmart said"Hi Mike", it could have been her twin. Certain songs have come ...
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.

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