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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 11, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by ProudMary
I haven’t been able to purge my husband’s closet yet because it’s full of nothing but triggers, but I had no idea that purging the kitchen would be this horrendous. I refuse to give up though and am getting ready to dig in again. If I melt ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 11, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by ProudMary
Now that's what I'm talking about.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 11, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
Next A Kim memory revisited: Years ago, before I met Kim, I bought a cool bomber jacket in NY. With a thick sweater, it filled me out nicely. I went to a club one night and it was stolen off a chair. A year or two later, I met this petite lady with ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 12, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Rose2U
For the ladies. This gives us hope . Men just reverse it. I know it can happen.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 15, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
Hey folks...Thanksgiving is coming up. My Kim really loved Thanksgiving. We had a family tradition of watching the parade with brie and homemade cranberry sauce, then the dog show...then the Lord of the Rings movies! I miss this greatly. Anyhow, ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 17, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Wangobango3
Last week would have been my 45th wedding anniversary. Last Wed. My girlfriend was diagnosed with cancer of the trachea. Next week will be the one year anniversary of my wife's death. I have become uncomfortably numb.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 17, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
So...I seem to have these odd forgetful moments. Let me explain; when I'm out and about, perhaps live music, or brews with friends, when coming home, I'm like...Oh I can't wait to tell Kim about this! Then I realize I can't, she's gone. It's a ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 26, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
I don't think there is a right or wrong here, but in your opinion, who recovers faster after a spouse dies, the man, or the woman? I have my thoughts, but I'm curious what other people think.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 26, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by ProudMary
I saw my in-laws this evening for the first time since my husband died. It's a moment I've been dreading and I'm glad it's over with.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 26, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Nunulady
Widowed for 1and1/2 years now! I look back with so many regrets.... Still cry over nothing.... It's the love lost and never really was..... 49 years......I feel displaced sometimes.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 29, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Della
George passed away almost 4 years ago. He was a people person. Our home was always full. Family & friends, anytime anything was going on, it was here. Holidays, birthdays, daily BBQs, it was a given. No one comes here now. I am comfortable with ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 29, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by RidingAlone
I met Cheryl on Halloween night, 1981. We were married the following March, on Friday 13th. She succumed to cancer Dec 2016, so this will be my second Halloween without her since 81 and our 3 year old great grandson still asks after her. Sorry to be ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 30, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by RidingAlone
brings tears to my eyes
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 31, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Redheadedgammy
I am taking a trip up to Nebraska this Saturday and will be there for a week. I'm going because my husbands family up there who couldn't come to the memorial service here in Texas wanted to have a get together. I had the funeral home send some of ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 2, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by psycheworks
Well, on my travels I've had mixed responses to my grief and widowhood, I think I need to share the best of the worst though. A female 'friend' asked how long I was going to hold a candle for Jock and told me that perhaps I should go out and have ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 3, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by EyesThatSmile
Hi. I admit, I am not a widow. I joined your group because I have a question about my own grief. My father died a few days ago. The rest of my family are all Christian and believe my father is in a better place. I politely kept my mouth shut. my...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 3, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Untamedshrew
Yesterday marked one year since my husband of 11 years died. I’m just tired of feeling sad or angry at the slightest provocation.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 3, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Untamedshrew
Yesterday marked one year since my husband of 11 years died. I’m just tired of feeling sad or angry at the slightest provocation.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 3, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by ProudMary
Oh look, it's a picture of my entire week.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 6, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Ron_R
Sometimes I feel silly about these things, but aren't we are all just giant vessels of walking emotions? I will tell you that Kim was crazy about voting () and I miss her just now. So...I will be taking her wedding ring with me to vote. A...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 7, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by 1986a
Been 7 years and got a job to not be around the house months at a time. Think it may be time to stay home and face things
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 8, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by psycheworks
It's been a wobbly few weeks on the run up to a double anniversary of Jock's birthday on the 27th and his death on the 1st December, I'm holding up better than last year though....so far.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 9, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by RoseyRose
It is no special day, nothing interesting happened, it is no anniversary of anything. Tonight the veil between going insane with the painful waves of grief and staying sane and reasonable are very thin. It's so hard to breathe. 08-17-17
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 10, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Zster
EVERYTHING's changing!!! I've been widowed since 2006, raising two kids to their majority. So, my nest is empty for the first time since my marriage, 30 years ago. With a house full of pets, I have been doing ok with it. Meanwhile, I've been saving...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 10, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Dougy
Just discovered this group. I lost the love of my life, in July of 2001. It was only 3 months, but I have only started to try dating again for these past 6 months. I have a fairly comprehensive bio, if you would like to learn more.
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.
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