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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 17, 2018May 2018

Posted by NFAguy53
I see comments/posts where people knew the day was coming. THE last day. And they act like they didn't prepare for it. Days, weeks, months, even years to prepare for THE final day of their spouse or loved one. There are actually 2 I suppose. One ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 22, 2018May 2018

Posted by RidingAlone
How does one move on? How does one not dishonor a life of love and caring? I wish I had answers, where all I have are questions and self doubt. Thanks for all the posts here, some are very enlightening.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 24, 2018May 2018

Posted by Celestia
Today I was watching TV and the character was grieving her daughter's death. She found a garment that she had previously missed in her daughters things, and just the way she smelled it took me all the way back. I was completely blindsided by the ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 25, 2018May 2018

Posted by Celestia
Me again. i would like to express my experience with "moving on". My husband died 17 years ago, and i had never even contemplated moving on. i understood the concept as it related to moving on from bad decisions, unhealthy relationships, and so ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
May 28, 2018May 2018

Posted by AncientNight
Today is the first anniversary of Lisa's passing. I had planned to write some great thing about her last few months on the planet. Now that the time is here, my mind draws a blank. I can't write something great because there's nothing great about her...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 1, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
This song says it all to me, hope you enjoy it too.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 1, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by jess666
My husband jumped from our 8th floor balcony in front of me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 12, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by thinkingsooner
My husband died almost five years ago after a illness. We had been 42 years. I k of him and miss him every day but the pain isn’t as sharp as it used to be and I have rediscovered my joys in every day life. But I have found that it has become ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 15, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
A very sad moment my best friend for many years just lost her husband yesterday to cancer???
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 25, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
It's not easy but I try to celebrate it every day.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 10, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by MsHoliday
Has anyone here gotten therapy after their significant other died? Do you think it helped you? I have started a online therapy called: better help.com and the therapist thinks I have missed a few steps in the grieving process so I am revisiting ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 3, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Rose2U
I have done a t-shirt quilt with my husbands tshirts. Anyone interested I have the link.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 18, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Annaise
Is loosing someone to a breakup the same as loosing someone to death? I have had both experiences. Both have been painful, and a reason to grieve for me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 24, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by john369
Is wrong to try to find love again. I want to fill the void that I feel. What's too soon?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 3, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Sofabeast
As the third anniversary of my wife's death approaches, I find it difficult to engage with death. How do others deal with talking about death in general and the loss of a life partner around the time of your anniversary?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Oct 26, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ron_R
I don't think there is a right or wrong here, but in your opinion, who recovers faster after a spouse dies, the man, or the woman? I have my thoughts, but I'm curious what other people think.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 3, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Untamedshrew
Yesterday marked one year since my husband of 11 years died. I’m just tired of feeling sad or angry at the slightest provocation.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Apr 7, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Untamedshrew
My husband died in November after a long struggle with addiction. It started with doctors too generous for many years with opiods and Xanax. The end was sad and ugly. I’m left with so many conflicting emotions. Most people seem to think I’m okay ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 4, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Hazydays
In a few days, I’ll have reached my 1 year mark being labeled a widow. How did you manage to get through your first year as a widow/er? How long has it been for you? What significant life changes have you made since losing your spouse? Any words of...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 12, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by thinkingsooner
Grief is love with no place to go.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Rose2U
How would you feel about just saying their name and the date of passing? Don 1/15/17 My husband. Luv you always and forever!!
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 16, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by ProudMary
How long after you lost your significant other did you feel like dating again?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 8, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by RandyTerry
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 17, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by alon
A November 3, 2019 Prediction Trump will win even more spectacular than before due to overwhelming support from many that disliked him but did not hate him and came to appreciate & benefit from his accomplishments.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 23, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by alon
Have You Read Victor Davis Hanson?
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.
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