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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 7, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Fallout
My partner didn't die but it felt like it. I was married 20+ happy years to my ex who has been physically disabled since birth. Unfortunately about 10 years ago she developed estrogen receptor positive breast cancer I had found the lump one night and...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 11, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Rose2U
This says allot!
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 29, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by GuyKeith
I was married to the same woman for over 33 years, lived in the same house for 12 years and my taxes were paid. My wife and I raised two sons who are both college graduates and doing well. The last 37 months of her life I was a full-time caregiver ...
5 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 13, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Sara72712
Well, here it is. Today, Friday the 13th, would have been our 11th wedding anniversary. And to make matters worse, Monday would have been his 35th birthday. Yeah, he was only 30 when he took his own life. I woke up, rolled over, and bam. Like why ...
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 27, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Dan1947
I have been a widower for 8 years and have grown immensely because of it. My desire is to finally find REQUITED love for once in my life. Both emotional development and substance have been the major needs in my onging search.......some of us will ...
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 28, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by SACatWalker
Last night my brother died. I didn't even know he was sick. I simply got a short email from his wife, telling me just that he passed after a brief illness. We hadn't spoke in years. No chance of that ever happening now. I wonder what went ...
7 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 10, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by matthew1954
Pretty much spot on: "The Day I’ll Finally Stop Grieving"
7 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 23, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by onlyif
No words...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 2, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by psycheworks
Well, on my travels I've had mixed responses to my grief and widowhood, I think I need to share the best of the worst though. A female 'friend' asked how long I was going to hold a candle for Jock and told me that perhaps I should go out and have ...
5 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 10, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Zster
EVERYTHING's changing!!! I've been widowed since 2006, raising two kids to their majority. So, my nest is empty for the first time since my marriage, 30 years ago. With a house full of pets, I have been doing ok with it. Meanwhile, I've been saving...
10 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 10, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Dougy
Just discovered this group. I lost the love of my life, in July of 2001. It was only 3 months, but I have only started to try dating again for these past 6 months. I have a fairly comprehensive bio, if you would like to learn more.
4 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 19, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
So very true for me ?
3 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 30, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sorcha
I went to my ex husband's memorial last night. It was good to see people I never thought I'd see again like his best friend, my brother in law, and my niece and nephew. Someone from his high school said that when they ran into one another a few ...
2 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 7, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Hey folks. I swear I'll never get back to sleeping normal. 2019 will be the year I sleep again ...maybe. I think I'll have to get a new bed. I have a sleep comfort in a queen. Underneath is like two separate single inflatables and it just ...
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 15, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by ProudMary
Does the weather affect your grief? Now that the weather's turned cold, and especially today while we're having an ice storm, I just absolutely ache for his presence. I keep looking at his chair, hoping he'll materialize. This sucks.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 1, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Susieq
I've been dating a Canadian snowbird who is here for the winter. Thursday was the 2nd anniversay of his wife's death and he wanted to be alone. Yesterday morning, (Friday) he called me and said he didn't want to see me anymore. He wanted to be ...
5 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 17, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Today I went to see my nutritionist/counselor and she tells me I am not taking care of myself so well right now. I'm not eating correctly, nor drinking enough water, nor getting enough exercise. I know this is true. I haven't been taking very good...
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 11, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by NoIdea
I lost my wife of 23 years to pancreatic cancer on Nov 1st 2018. The grieving process has been 'interesting'. I have realised that I started to grieve shortly after her diagnosis 2 years ago. Being knowledgeable about cancer, it's treatment and ...
15 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 21, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by ArthurK
It has been almost 4 years since cancer took my wife of 43 1/2 years. I think about her every day. And although the pain has subsided a bit it is still there. And the lingering question - why. But since I still live I must go on. The adjustment, as ...
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 27, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Today is my darling Richards birthday. He would have been 69 years old this year. It's been a tough month because we closed on the house on Feb 14, 2014. This was going to be the place where we grew old together. I always tried to make his ...
5 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 3, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Marionville
I don’t post here very often, although do respond and try to support others when they do so. All of us, in this group, have been bereaved at some time, by losing either a spouse, partner or close relative or friend. The grief we suffer is unique...
8 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 4, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by ProudMerrie
Not a good day today. Grief just seems to come out of nowhere sometimes and knock me right on my ass. This was taken the day he came home from the hospital for the last time. Our dogs were so happy to see him.
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 11, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Sheannutt
Moving on, I have hurt long enough ?❤
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Mar 14, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Ron_R
Hey everybody. Anyone see After Life...or The After Life starring the British (the Office) comic Ricky Gervais? If so, what did you think?
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Rose2U
What is a sign that makes you strongly believe your partner is visiting? Not sure if there are many believers but I am one. Mine is the Cardinal eating from my bird feeder//butterfly and dragonflies.
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.

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