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This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

This is a group for those who have lost a spouse, life partner, or significant other to share the unique issues they face and to support each other as they recover from that devastating loss.

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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 20, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Gypsy494
I am trying to keep busy even more so than usual.BUT Jan 14 ( Lost my love last Jan 14) is fast approaching. Im in a new town / state feeling lost , scared, alone and even more heartbroken. Any ideas? How do you cope on that terrible anniversary?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 6, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Zster
I have decided to embrace even the smallest pleasures in this life, partially to fill the gaping hole left by loss, but also, because all things are fleeting, eventually. Currently, that equates with adding splashes of color where I can. That ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 2, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Celestia
Due to no effort of my own, i have been made moderator of the group. Apparently I am the senior member. I don't normally agree to moderating, but in this instance i want to. I will be monitoring this group for trolls and assholes. Due to the ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jun 13, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by RoseyRose
My husband of 36 years died on August 17th of 2017. Laryngeal cancer. It was a fucking nightmare. His suffering was beyond description. I took care of him. Yes I had hospice visiting, but I took care of him. Every medication, injections, feeding, ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 2, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by JackPedigo
What if you had died first? Sorry this is a bit long but I feel important for this group. My partner and I talked about this especially after meeting a cousin of a friend of ours. The woman was married to a Greek and living in ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 30, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Dancing
He always brushed off my car. Always. It was so sweet. He usually made a big deal about it. That his woman doesn't have to do that kinda thing! Lol. So of course all this snow has me crying. I was able to hold my tears back as I brushed off my car ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 27, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by NoIdea
Why is it that at the funeral and other occasions you have listen everyone tell you how sorry they are for your loss and that if you need anything you just have get in touch. But when you ask for that help those same people squirm and try ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 4, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Death changes everything.?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 21, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Dancing
Sometimes I feel so alone in my grief. But I want it that way, too. I don't want to post on Facebook but I feel like I am supposed to. He would have been 40 today. I have been avoiding thinking about it but his neice posted that on Facebook and it ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 12, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Rose2U
As a mom and a widow. We want to be happy and also want our kids to be.How did you handle telling your child you are dating? If they say one thing but act another. My son is 20 and met the new man in my life last night. I was nervous. I know it's ...
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 17, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by bookofmorons
Wondering how people feel about this? For me it pretty much sums things up but sad we don't realize it until its too late. Thoughts?
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Feb 3, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Dancing
Sometimes I do.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 15, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Rose2U
HI, I am new here. Wanted to say hello. I am a widow of 18 months and am no stranger to the waves that come. Sending strength to all.
10 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 8, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Sara72712
My husband will be gone 5 years in August. I still have bad days, especially in July and August.
5 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 10, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by MsHoliday
Has anyone here gotten therapy after their significant other died? Do you think it helped you? I have started a online therapy called: better help.com and the therapist thinks I have missed a few steps in the grieving process so I am revisiting ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Aug 8, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by joantheloon
My husband and I were married for 22 years when he died from ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig's Disease. He passed in 2002. We had a very good marriage and 3 great kids, I still miss him and have yet to find anyone who compares to him. So sad :(
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 11, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Redheadedgammy
Hello group, I started looking around a little on the site and found this group. I lost my husband June 22, 2018. Just a few weeks now. I've been seeing a grief counselor and it seems to help somewhat. I have a wonderful family, two son's and ...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jul 1, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
Experiencing a loss.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 17, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Lorajay
My husband's been gone 6 years. I've always felt lucky that we had such a wonderful marriage. Yesterday I cried for the first time in many years. For some reason I thought about him and then realized even though I could remember many of the things he...
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 31, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Gypsy494
Not doing this again ..... but over the holidays I am working myself to the ground so not to think. First holidays without hubby. Result exhausted and sad. Supposed to be going to daughter in laws family tonight after I get home from work. Wish I ...
14 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Nov 13, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Fuzzy
Thankful for this community. The anniversary of my wife's death is in Dec. This is the beginning of my hardest time of year. Thanks to everyone sharing i don't feel so alone in my continuing grief. Thank you.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 2, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by mikebeed
Virginia passed 3 years ago. Since then, weird things have happened. I had a party this summer with our old friends. Out of nowhere Virginia's daughter showed up. A lady in Walmart said"Hi Mike", it could have been her twin. Certain songs have come ...
6 comments
Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Dec 18, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by MsHoliday
So very true for me.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Jan 2, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Gypsy494
We all never asked for this and onward we bravely find our way.
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Widow(er)/life partner/significant other
Sep 5, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Sheannutt
I feel this way from time to time.?
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Posted by bookofmoronsIts been 10 years last week since I lost her. Hard to believe where that time went and yet it isn't either

Posted by RedheadedgammyToday four years ago today, at 4:15 in the morning my darling Richard passed away.

Posted by BettyEvery day. 😥

Posted by RoseyRoseToday is the anniversary of my husbands birth.

Posted by GeorgeRocheleauI know how they feel.

Posted by Sonja44All of it.

Posted by Sonja44My love would have been 61 years old today. 💔

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by AlchemyWow, I am grateful to find this group.

Posted by Huskygirl4everToday would be our 27th anniversary it's the seventh one without you and it hurts this picture would be taken on June 12th the original date we had set for the wedding but we had to get married a ...

Posted by Huskygirl4everI remember when Norm gave this to me and the first time I ever read it I actually read my last name as Friedrich this is one of the things I will always cherish

Posted by AncientNight45 years ago, my Father told me, "Beware the Ides of March!" It was the day I got Married to my Girlfriend.

Posted by KymmacgOne of the biggest issues for me, now, even 18 years later, is the loss of life.

Posted by alonI had a nice Bacon/Cheese Omelette for my Sunday Breakfast this morning instead of my usual Eggs Benedict.

Posted by MsHolidayMemories.

Posted by MsHolidayI have chosen to place this here to let others know that we do move forward.
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