Picture on profile is not a face sometimes a cat, landscape, cartoon, etc. Why?

Cast1es comments on Jun 8, 2018:

Potential reasons , for not posting your photo : 1 . You're married , and don't want your spouse to happen upon your photo . 2 . You're an escaped criminal and don't want the law to locate you. 3 . You don't consider yourself attractive , and hope your words will capture someone's heart , before they discover you aren't physically attractive . 4 . You're cat-fishing someone you know , with mean ulterior motives . 5 . You're deeply in debt , and hope to talk someone into sending you money for an emergency , then immediately cut all communication . 6 . You're a Nigerian Prince , so can't show your face in public . 7 . You're extremely attractive looking , or rich or famous , but you want someone who's interested in who you are , instead of how you look , how much money you have , or how famous you are .

I was having a quick browse around the open for dating and saw that I had no competition around the ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 8, 2018:

Options : 1. Move 2 . Change your gender 3 . Date men 4 . Get to know some of us , tell us about where you live in Spain , then invite someone you're interested in , into visiting you in Spain .

So. What do you all think? Stir Fry?

Cast1es comments on Jun 8, 2018:

So little meat , not worth the effort .

Is this it?

Cast1es comments on Jun 8, 2018:

If you expect/want more out of life , in all likely hood , you'll have to put more into it .

The intelligent posts and conversations I've seen on this site make me wonder if agnostics and ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 8, 2018:

The saying goes , water seeks it's own level . While Agnostics.com is an organization built around a lack of faith , and does include a variety of personalities , I also noticed early on , that the average of the people involved here , does seem to be above the norm .

My sweet little rescue dog is allergic to grass.

Cast1es comments on Jun 8, 2018:

Just out of curiosity , pollen has been very high this year . Are you sure the grass is the problem , and not tree pollen coating the grass ?

I am not qualified to join the 2% or higher club but I could use some genius help before I get ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 7, 2018:

I will be the very first to admit , I have absolutely no experience with fabrication machinery , and experience provides education in how to handle mechanical problems , that general knowledge would not provide . I gather , you have had training in your specific field , and have been taught the formulas which apply to this problem . In general terms , as you've already pointed out , cold makes metals shrink . Likewise heat makes them expand . Oil helps to reduce friction , which causes metals to heat and thereby expand , which may have caused the problem in the first place . If I ran into a similar problem I think I would try to attack it from all four points . First , let it cool . Second , apply the appropriate viscosity of oil . Third , as you already mentioned , chill the parts which are too big . Four , heat the parts that are too small , to get them to expand . Unfortunately , I don't think you can run the equipment for very long , in this state , if you can get it running at all . But you may be able , once they are loosened , to remove the problematic part . That said , it would make more sense to me , to remove the offending part , take it to the shop , and either make a new part , but the correct size , or , if possible shave down a part that is a trifle too big . I am sorry , I can not provide you with a specific formula , as I don't have that training . To keep from getting fired , you may consider asking your boss for instructions , If he knows the correct answer , you may pump up his ego by asking him . If he doesn't know the answer , then he doesn't know any more than you do .

What does anyone hope to gain by joining MENSA?

Cast1es comments on Jun 7, 2018:

Mensa , like Agnostic.com , is a social organization , where people of a like mind with interests in common , may share time together . Throughout my school years , I always felt a bit of a misfit . I didn't fit in with kids my own age , nor were they comfortable around me . My friends tended to be girls a couple of years older than I was . Consider , for instance , if you as an adult , spent all of your time with children . You may love being around them , and they may look up to you , but you would miss out being around adults . Or consider the concept of jocks vs. nerds , which is so often shown in movies . It's nice to be able to socialize with people who are at your own level .

MY PENSION! I can actually afford to retire.

Cast1es comments on Jun 7, 2018:

Glad to hear you can afford to retire , but I'm not so sure we are the richest country any more . A lot of huge Metropolitan areas are basically being abandoned , schools aren't being supported , life supporting natural resources are running short due to contamination , government agencies which cleaned the air , are being dismantled so that corporations can continue to contaminate the water and soil .

How comfortable are you with the word "Atheist" ?

Cast1es comments on Jun 6, 2018:

Unindoctrinated ? Wise ? Intelligent ? Untainted ? Was being admitted to a hospital for surgery , and was answering questions before they got started - Do you smoke ? Drink ? Use drugs ? Believe in God ? Have someone to rely on , in case of emergency ? To all of which , I answered no . She then looked at me and asked , well , what do you do when you need help ? What is your crutch ? Told her , I just stand on my own two feet .

Deal Breakers

Cast1es comments on Jun 6, 2018:

At this point , I have no expectations . I sincerely feel that , as you said , it's easy to everyone out . I like my life and who I am . The chances that I'll meet anyone who'll actually make life better are much , much smaller than the chance of becoming involved with someone who'll make it a whole lot worse . The last several men who have shown any interest , wanted me to , "loan," them ,which I had no expectation of ever seeing returned , wanted to move in , so they could live like a king at my expense , had habits , I have no desire to deal with (smoking , alcoholism , drugs , financial problems , dominance issues ) , and had no skills or interest in anything beneficial to me . These days , since I can no longer do as much as I used to do , when I was younger , if I can't manage something on my own , I hire someone . I am very glad , I prepared well for my own future .

Found this funny, thought I'd share

Cast1es comments on Jun 6, 2018:

:) ;)

Not a "garden" but the wild Blanket flowers have burst into bloom.

Cast1es comments on Jun 6, 2018:

I do that too . First they need to be weeded , then watered , maybe some more fertilizer , and by then it's too dark for photos .

What does it really mean to love , and what does it mean to be in love with another?

Cast1es comments on Jun 6, 2018:

Feelings don't just happen . They build . Feelings don't just , " go away ," they're ." They're killed ." When you first meet someone , you may think, another's appearance is attractive , but that isn't enough to be love . It's how someone makes you feel about yourself , that converts attraction to something so very much stronger . If you spend the next twenty years , proving to someone how great you are , by cutting them down to beneath your size , in order to make yourself look impressive in comparison to themselves , you destroy what ever feelings they may have initially had for you . That's why , after a major break up , you need to redefine who you are , who you want to be , and become the person who feels good about yourself , because of who you chose to become ..

Yesterday (I think) I mentioned to one of my favorite Agnostics that I hadn't seen any garter snakes...

Cast1es comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Looks like he had a hearty breakfast ....

Friday I will go on my first France, Switzerland and Germany adventure! I am over the moon with ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Catch the train to the Palace of Versilles , it's about ten miles outside of Paris .

Do you have a book collection?

Cast1es comments on Jun 5, 2018:

When I was approaching retirement , I bought a home to retire to . My ,"little," brother phoned our Mom and said to her , she should tell me to get rid of my books , before I move . When she told me that , I told her the , "new to me ," house I'd just bought , has a library , I'm not getting rid of any of my books . She and I had a great laugh . Many of my library shelves are double stacked , and I have three additional book cases , as well . When I was small , Mom located whatever public libraries were anywhere near where we lived , she'd get herself a library card , and each week , she'd borrow as many books as her card would permit , getting books for each of us , as well as for herself .

What's the best thing you've ever done for your self?

Cast1es comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Divorcing my mother-in-law , buying shingles and re-roofing my house , putting myself through college . Investing in real estate and doing all the maintenance of my properties , myself . Retiring ! Yeah !

Name up to four kinds of outdoor camping vacations you've either taken or would like to take.

Cast1es comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Husband borrowed a trailer/tent combination , went to Pa. , it was freezing . Camping with Civil Air Patrol , search and rescue training with a co-ed group of teens . Camping with SCA (Medieval English re-enactment ) group . Spent a weekend on Dad's cruiser (does that count as camping ) ?

I’ll try and get on in the next few days, just got out of the hospital, pneumonia and small ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Do hope you were prepared (pantry stocked , etc.) , so you can take your time recovering . Now is the time for a mini vacation . Treat yourself well , and relax . Learn to enjoy your recovery .

I loved harry potter

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

It's a very popular series .

My bff and former roommate of 32 years was convicted of forging prescriptions and trafficking ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Even though it isn't your fault , it may be possible that seeing you is a constant reminder to her of her poor choices . It may also be possible that she's been told , by her parole officer , that she is not allowed to be with friends she knew before she went to prison .

In 2009, a sad/funny/weird/scary thing happen to me while on a dating site date.

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

I sometimes think men and women aren't from the same planet .

What's the best thing you've ever done for your self?

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Being with whom you want to be , is a good reason for being where you are .

What is the best way to find people in your area and communicate with them ?

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Choose how far you'd be willing to travel to meet with someone , set that distance on your bio info . Then when you choose to , select , "meet ," then select ,"nearby."

NATIVE AMERICAN CITIZENSHIP [instagram.com]

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Seems ," bass ackwards ."

HeeHee!!!!

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Ah ha , so that's how vegetables absorb minerals ....

Just Some Motion (Sven Otten's YouTube channel) [youtu.be]

Cast1es comments on Jun 4, 2018:

He's got a lot of bounce , in his step !

I am trying to learn how to navigate around this site, and how to find where I may have posted.

Cast1es comments on Jun 3, 2018:

Go to the top of the page , and click on your photo/name . That will show a pull down with lists of what you've been doing and will also bring up your bio and beneath that , you will find all the comments you've made to other people's posts ..

This moves me. Show me what moves you.

Cast1es comments on Jun 3, 2018:

Bill Nye , Obama , and Di Grasse . Couldn't even imagine this with Trump .

Best 80's Sci Fi

Cast1es comments on Jun 3, 2018:

If high tech and futuristic settings don't qualify as SciFi , what does ? Would something like , " Matrix , " qualify ? What about , "Close Encounters ? " "ET ? " "A.I. ?"

Alright people of Houston! Let's get together and have some godless fun.

Cast1es comments on Jun 3, 2018:

Would love to get together , with others . Don't deal well with night glare , so I don't drive after dark , particularly in areas not familiar to me . While a trip to Galveston sounds like fun , it's too far to go for any kind of routine get together . There do seem to be a couple dozen of us on the north side of Houston . Perhaps afternoon meet up's ? There are a lot of resturants along I45 and 249 .

I'm still getting my feet wet on this site, but since subjects don't seem to be limited to religion,...

Cast1es comments on Jun 3, 2018:

My son-in-law , didn't use either . He used chewing tobacco . He developed cancer of his stomach and the doctors cut out 90% of his stomach . When my daughter first began dating him , I asked her , how could she stand kissing him . She replied , "Simple , I don't kiss him on his mouth ." Seems to me , each one is just as stupid as the other . Why do people choose to intentionally make themselves look dumb , smell bad , be dangerous to live with ( many home fires are started by smokers who fell asleep with lit cigaretts ) , and their family members and/or themselves sick or dead ?

GreenHouses A few ideas on green houses from down here: How to Build a Geodesic Dome Greenhouse ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 3, 2018:

Excellent post ! Hadn't thought of dome green houses . Fantastic idea ! thanks

IT WAS NEVER ABOUT THE FLAG [instagram.com]

Cast1es comments on Jun 3, 2018:

....but what the flag stands for .

I live with a narcissistic energy vampire.

Cast1es comments on Jun 2, 2018:

Works both ways . My daughter was going through a separation , but couldn't support herself and her kids , so moved in with me for a year . Her hubby did not send one red cent in child support , that year , and she decided to take a year long vacation . Currant status : she thinks I'm horrible and I've blocked her in Facebook .

I cleared out this fence line of brush, honeysuckle, and dead ash trees last year.

Cast1es comments on Jun 2, 2018:

WQW ! That's lovely ! Some kind of bug , keeps eating the few hostas I planted .

Made me smile.

Cast1es comments on Jun 2, 2018:

What ?

Going skinny dipping tonight lol!

Cast1es comments on Jun 2, 2018:

Back yard pool , nice fences , lots of trees , feels great !

Should you use the word "sex" in your profile?

Cast1es comments on Jun 2, 2018:

Practically every male written profile , specifically says he wants sex . As far as I can tell , if a female profile says she wants sex , nothing else she writes matters. He'll show up for the sex , and consider anything else afterwards , maybe .

Picked up some ferns today to go around my fountain.

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

You need seating , so you can sit and enjoy it

U.S. televangelist asks followers for money to buy him a US$54 million private jet | CTV News

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

I read somewhere , this desire for a new jet , is on top of the two private jets he already has .

This site's gender profile.

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

Typically speaking , there are more female babies born than male . More male children than female children , die by five years old , because they get into more things due to their testesteron . More males die in autombile accidents than females due to the temptation to speed . More males than females are incarcerated . So your concept is that on a dating site , that is male weighted , women should try to attract more competition ?

"Lost in time and lost in space and meaning', a quote from the 1975 movie "The Rocky Horror Picture ...

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

Let's do the time warp again .....

These are a friend of mines flowers from her garden.

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

What is the one in the middle of the photo with stripes and eyeballs ?

Dating site frustration...

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

As difficult as it is , to find someone who's just plain normal , I keep wondering how it is , that folks with peculiar interests , manage to find one another ?

I'm starting to wonder about this online dating.

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

If we were , "good at it , " we wouldn't still be here . It's kind of a learn as you go thing , and hopefully , someone will see good things in who you are , and you'll see good things in them as well .

Is this a mensa only group?

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2018:

Mensa is not the only high IQ group , so this is not limited to that . I've found that having a high IQ , in a , "normal," level world , can leave you feeling out of place . Think jocks vs. nerds . Not fitting in with your classmates , when you were in school , being accused of being a snob , when you aren't , but others feel lacking when you're around so their defensive mechanism kicks in , and they accuse you of it . It's just a place for you to feel comfortable with others at your own level . Are you thinking of an ," idiot-savant ," as in , someone who may be lacking in normal social skills , but can do amazing mental processes in one or two specific areas , such as being able to instantly tell you which day of the week any date you mention falls on ?

I live with a narcissistic energy vampire.

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

Move out .

When going out on a first date with someone, does it matter at all to you if the person drives a ...

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

Depends , don't mind if it's old , but the question is , is it well maintained - safe to drive , reliable enough to get back home in ? If , at this late stage of the game , he's borrowing someone else's beat up unreliable vehicle , chances are he has other responsibilities he needs to give priority to - like his wife and kids , his drug habit , his failing business , he's unemployed , can't meet his debts , can't handle his own finances , has expensive habits he can't pay for , and I/d certainly have no desire to tempt him into spending money he can't afford to .

Attempting To grow dragon fruit from seed

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

I've seen these exotic red vegetables in the grocery store , but have no idea how to prepare them for eating . What do they takes like ?

I just made Level 7. Now I am up there with the big boys and girls.

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

Welcome !

I'm almost 74 and look young for this age.

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

You look great . I wouldn't discriminate against dating younger men , in fact I prefer dating younger man , especially those who prefer dating older women . My Mom married a man three years older than I am , my brother married a woman 10 years his senior , and the love of my life was 14 years younger than I am . Works better than the traditional acceptable age gaps for each of us .

Australia Doesn't Exit And People Who Live There Are Actors Paid By NASA - Flat Earthers Claim

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

Where do you think Australia would go , if it did exit ? Not exactly like you can flush it , and it'd go down the drain . Everyone in Australia , exit stage left , the entire continent is about to be flushed .

While becoming familiar with the site I happened on the chat rooms.

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

How do you describe yourself without labels ? Isn't it a bit difficult to write your bio , without being able to use the words to tell others who you are ?

Looking from across the Atlantic I am always baffled by US Presidents' overt avowal of Christian ...

Cast1es comments on May 30, 2018:

Much the same as your monarchs , I suspect . England has had wars , over religion . Henry VIII , closed the Monasteries , his daughter Mary was strongly Catholic , and his daughter Elizabeth was Protestant . These three alone tore England apart . When Prince Charles discussed Camilla with your Queen Elizabeth II , even he brought up the fact that it is common for Kings to have mistresses . Basically , a man may be , "powerful, " rich , and famous , but he still needs a bunch of women to confirm that for him . When it comes to religion , the people want the delusion that their leaders will adhere to supposed religious ethics . It's all an allusion .

I'm still getting my feet wet on this site, but since subjects don't seem to be limited to religion,...

Cast1es comments on May 29, 2018:

Neither are good for your health , your finances , your appearance , or your odor .

My siberians and non-siberians...

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

Beauriful Irises

What are some things that turn you off on a first date that make you determine there won't be ...

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

Listen closely to what they say about others . I find that what people complain about in others , if unsubstanciated , are most often their own worst traits .

No words...

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

Freedom of religion , does indeed mean , you do NOT have to believe what others believe , just because they believe it .

I don't want to go to work tomorrow

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

I enjoy being retired !

Tough times never last, but tough people do.

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

Over time , even tough people slowly begin to fade .

The Only "Cross" Allowed In My House!!

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

Herbal ?

Here it is, the reason I live in the North of England.

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

It's beautiful ! Rather reminds me of the farming country of western Maryland /

The Earth is 6000 Years Old - Atheist Experience - YouTube

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

HA HA HA

A CDC report , released Thursday , says that of the 10,013 female homicides that occurred between ...

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

Since we seem to be getting off to a slow start on the real question , how about I give you a hand . One of the more popular sites here is gardening . If a man (or woman) , enjoys gardening , and enthusiasticly grows organic vegetables , than he (or she) would be improving their spouse's life , by providing an alternative to corporate produced food , which is coated in pesticides , or has been geniticaly modified so that insects are killed simply by eating the produce . See , that wasn't so very hard . Now, what do you do , that would make a woman's life better ?

Still pertinent over 75 years later.

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

The cartoon you seem to be commenting on , has not shown up . You may want to consider erasing these posts , until the cartoon you're talking about appears .

Still pertinent, more than 75 years later.

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

?

Still pertinent, over 75 years later.

Cast1es comments on May 28, 2018:

What is still pertinent after 75 years ?

A CDC report , released Thursday , says that of the 10,013 female homicides that occurred between ...

Cast1es comments on May 27, 2018:

Interesting , getting a lot of discussion , but to date , not one man has told why he thinks he is special enough , for a woman to risk her life for . Why are you special ? How would a woman's life improve , if she were to become involved with you ?

At what age did you move out?

Cast1es comments on May 27, 2018:

Technically speaking , I didn't - they moved away .

Bloody pigeon. Swaggers round my garden like he owns the place.

Cast1es comments on May 27, 2018:

He swaggers , because he's found a home in paradise , which came with it's very own gardener , and it's beautiful !

🎵Another Saturday night and I ain't got nobody...🎵

Cast1es comments on May 26, 2018:

Find something you love to do , do it , and you'll meet someone else who likes doing the same thing you love doing .

I rent a little house in So Cal.

Cast1es comments on May 25, 2018:

AMAZING !

My pink flowered strawberry plants are a delight.

Cast1es comments on May 25, 2018:

Never heard of pink flowered strawberries before . Mine have always been white .

Where did all this BLOOD come from?

Cast1es comments on May 24, 2018:

Hydro cortizone , an over the counter , readily available at your local pharmacy - a clear gel , does a great job . A bit sticky . When I was young and got a severe case on my hands , mom used an old pillow case , traced around my hands very loosely , and made a pair of very loose fitting gloves - she soaked them in witch hazel and wrapped a towel around both hands at bedtime .

It's a good year so far for the plants.

Cast1es comments on May 23, 2018:

Yuccas do well is drought regions , and have beautiful flowers . I understand the American Indians used the roots as vegetables, though I've never tried them .

The more knowledge I acquire the more I realize I need more knowledge.

Cast1es comments on May 23, 2018:

It's an addiction .....

What is the worst thing you can say after sex ?

Cast1es comments on May 23, 2018:

The sounds of snoring .....

I received a friendship request on Facebook.

Cast1es comments on May 23, 2018:

I've met men who are not religious , who haven't been attending any church, but seem to think taking a woman to church is a good idea . In my opinion , it's been their notion that the religion will teach the woman that she should be submissive , and is required to abide by what ever the man tells her . Was sitting in my cubical at work one day , when a group of five or six engineers came to my cubical , Bible in hand , telling me that according to the Bible , I should do whatever they told me to do . I responded , this is your religion , not mine , but let's have a look and see what it says . The passage I read out loud said , a wife should do what her husband tells her , and should follow his lead . I grinned , looked up from the passage , and said , "And which of you very kind gentlemen , plans to marry me and support me in a fashion , to which I'd like to become accustomed ? " I heard one of them say , ""She's not falling for it , let's go , " as the group faded away from my desk .

Can you "green-thumbers" tell me my tomatoes won't fruit? In N. Florida

Cast1es comments on May 23, 2018:

Fertilizer

Hey all! Quick question: when I was younger, I played a lot of D&D.

Cast1es comments on May 22, 2018:

My daughter had friends over for D & D weekly . At one point , I learned one of our core group of 14 , had been raped . I did not want to address the issue directly , but wanted her to understand that all of us were on her side , and it was not something she should be ashamed of . I DM'd my first and only time , creating a story with the villian as a rapist . After the game , others of the group talked to me about their experiences . Of the group of 14 , four had been raped , one of whom was male . I do think D & D can be used in a beneficial way , although I find most are out to , " kill ," what ever strange creatures turn up .

My opportunistic pinches this week.

Cast1es comments on May 22, 2018:

When you pinch off a bit of a plant , how so must you have it in water , so that it doesn't die on you ?

Does this mean there's something wrong with me?

Cast1es comments on May 22, 2018:

There may be some other elements to the situation . If , for instance , you were either emotionally or physically estranged from them , for a long period of time , it may be more like , you lost them long ago . My Mom moved to a different country over 50 years before she died . While we were on good terms , and I did visit every couple of years , I felt much less impact at her death , because she was not part of my everyday life .

So, wait, which level do we have to be to get a t-shirt? 7?

Cast1es comments on May 21, 2018:

Thought that was just a joke .

C'mon . . . . How clueless ARE you LEO's?

Cast1es comments on May 20, 2018:

Like people everywhere , some are good , and some are bad . Some of what they are or choose to be , deals with how they were raised , some has to do with how they were trained , and some has to do with what they have to deal with everyday . Many years ago , a study was done among prisoners . So many claimed they were abused as children , that new measures were taken to control abuse of children . Since that time , school shootings have increased very dramatically . The pendulum , has swung too far . Some parents are so intimidated , to the point that children are not taught the basics of living in a civilized society . Some think they deserve the biggest , best and most of everything , and become bullies , when they don't get everything . Sometimes , a time out , doesn't relay the message , and they continue their unacceptable behavior . What they don't learn as children , they pay for later in life .

Love the smell of my lavender in full bloom.

Cast1es comments on May 20, 2018:

That's big , you must have planted that one several years ago . Very healthy plant .

How do people feel about people who are childless?

Cast1es comments on May 20, 2018:

Over population is a world wide problem . Why should anyone be belittled , for not having more children . If you don't want them , don't have them .

Went to two different garden stores to day what a great way to feed my gardening ...

Cast1es comments on May 18, 2018:

You are a stronger person than I .

If you were on a date with someone, and they suddenly told you that they were from another planet, ...

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Stephen Hawkins , said we are made of star dust . I recently read a paper that said , because negative blood types only showed up on this planet relatively recently , that those with negative blood , are decendants of aliens . My brother and I are both B- .

What do you normally do on Friday nights?

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Since money seems to be a concern , but you like working out at the gym , try the YWCA or YMCA . They're membership is very inexpensive and the more you use it , the less expensive , per visit , it becomes . You may also consider learning to play an instrument . Typically it involves a lot of sitting , and after the initial investment , you can take the instrument with you , if you move , or , if you decide you're no longer interested in that instrument , you can sell it to someone else . The Appalachen (sp) Trail runs along the entire east coast , and provides a few thousand miles of hiking trails , over varied terrain . You won't make friends to do activities with , if you choose to spend all your time sitting at home by yourself , focusing only on things you don't like or want to do .

What do you normally do on Friday nights?

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Since money seems to be a concern , but you like working out at the gym , try the YWCA or YMCA . They're membership is very inexpensive and the more you use it , the less expensive , per visit , it becomes . You may also consider learning to play an instrument . Typically it involves a lot of sitting , and after the initial investment , you can take the instrument with you , if you move , or , if you decide you're no longer interested in that instrument , you can sell it to someone else . The Appalachen (sp) Trail runs along the entire east coast , and provides a few thousand miles of hiking trails , over varied terrain . You won't make friends to do activities with , if you choose to spend all your time sitting at home by yourself , focusing only on things you don't like or want to do . While you named those things individually , even though you hinted there may be some things on the list you may be interested in , you did not acknowledge any of those , only that they might be fun if there were others to do them with you . So go back to the list , name the things you would be interested in doing , if you had friends , ** now go to those things , and make friends there .**

Watch The Screening Room | A Single Life | The New Yorker Video | CNE

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Unique concept !

Who in here is in The Houston area?

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Me , too !

Men and women are NOT equal.

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Enjoyed reading a lot of Heinlein's SciFi books , although I don't remember that particular comment . Studies have routinely shown , woman , receive less money for doing the same work the men are doing , put in a full day at work , come home to do nearly all of the house work and care for the family , while many men become couch potatoes , for which we receive no recognition or respect . Guess what ? We don't need you any more !

Estranged and grieving.

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Sign me up , please !

My first couple of petunia and sweet Williams have decided to show their faces.

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

Remember Hollyhocks won't bloom the first year , so don't weed them out , because you didn't see anything this year .

What do you normally do on Friday nights?

Cast1es comments on May 16, 2018:

True , the other post I wrote you , has disappeared . The SCA , is the Society for Creative Anachronism , and is made up of people interested in re-enacting Medieval History , creating and wearing the garb , armor , battles , courts , foods , camping , even horses . Perhaps you'd be interested in learning to fly planes , camping with teenagers , search and rescue missions , and military uniforms ? Try joining the CAP (Civil Air Patrol) . You might consider learning scuba diving ? Volunteering at fire houses and learning to be an EMT . You could volunteer at your local hospital . Your life seems to be more stationary . If you wish to remain stationary , check out your local gaming store . On weekends they have table top games available . You may want to check out your local libraries. They teach computer classes , they have senior movie nights and offer local museum trips . Check with your local YMCA or YWCA , many have pools available and you could work out in their gym and go swimming . You may try either roller skating or ice skating at your local skating rinks , if you're only interested in Friday nights and not the whole weekend as some of my other suggestions usually take up . Join a motor cycle club . Go horse back riding . My daughter is involved with a horse shoe tossing group , that meets every weekend . My brother loved his corvette and he and his wife would go on planned group Corvette road trips with other Corvette owners . You could sign up for some fun classes at your local community college such as oil or acrylic painting , ceramics , foreign languages , knitting , sewing . Had a friend who was in his late thirties , who was researching his family history , who was also interested in marrying a virgin . He joined a geneology group at his local Catholic Church , where he met and married a former nun. OK , so far I've suggested : SCA or other re-enactment groups CosPlay SciFiFantasy Conventions Ballroom dancing EMT Volunteer Fireman Volunteer Hospital CAP Scuba diving Gym and swimming Roller Skating / Ice Skating Motor cycle group Library courses , trips , movies Horse back riding Horse shoe tournaments Planned road trips D & D games at your local gaming store Courses (painting , ceramics , languages , knitting , sewing , French cooking , etc.) Geneology club On the top right hand side of your computer screen , you'll see something labeled as events . Click on that to see local events such as Greek festival , German , Festival Polish Festival , Farmers' markets Holiday festivals. You might be interested in visiting your local aquarium , arboritum , museums , parks , or commercial themed interests . You could take up work working , metal smithing , boating , fishing , archery , pistol target practice , auto ...

What do you normally do on Friday nights?

Cast1es comments on May 15, 2018:

So Joey , You didn't answer the question . What exactly IS your cup of tea ?

A quick question... Is it possible to grow lavender indoors as a house plant?

Cast1es comments on May 15, 2018:

While I haven't tried it indoors , I do have some growing in a planter . I suspect , if you have it in a sunny window and water as needed , it should do well .